We had similar experiences, and I particularly remember the relief I felt when we left, a mother and three young children. We had no money, but we had a mother who was fierce. Your story is sad, and I know as well as you do, there was little help available back then for wives abused by their husbands. Men got away with murder, and I remember my mom got child support of $50 every two weeks, money she was never able to collect.
Those violent episodes, carried out with regularity, made me who I am today as well, Tim. I abhor bullying of any kind, yet I fell into a situation not so dissimilar to what my mother had found herself in. The worst kind of people make the best liars. Thanks for being so open, and sharing your story and your thoughts. Cheers!