um, how can you live there? thats all i can think of, id be out of there in a heartbeat.
um ratting them out... i hope they dont have friends in high places?
as for your mother not accepting you for being gay or your boyfriend, lover, husband and your child.... Well, they are all a part of you, and if she doesnt accept them, then she doesnt accept you to an extent. shes denying someone (silven and your son) are a part of your life. a large part of your life.
so if your mom doesnt want to accept them, then she doesnt want to accept you. and you shouldnt further contact her unless necessary... or until she can live with who you are, and the lifestyle you wish to life.
James