Objectivist

My innocent eyes have been dirtied!! Lol. I've heard of cruising, however I can't say I know anyone in RL who cruises, nor do I know of any of the good cruising places. I think some people get off on having sex in public, and I can somewhat understand that. After all the thrill... But I also think that there are also those individuals who don't want to be caught having sex with another man, and therefore instead of doing stuff in their own home, or doing stuff in the house of their potential partners, they seek a public place... where they can be somewhat safe. but that would be my thought on the matter. and since i know very little of the scene... i could be 150% wrong. So what do I think about cruising? Well I don't necessarily feel its a healthy thing for people to do, I certainly have no intention of trying that out... but if you're going to do then make sure and protection. a body condom even. (kidding) Protection for yourself, and for your faceless (or the face that you won't likely remember) partner. I think this happens because the overall gay community doesn't want to be associated with the negative aspects. Ya know? for example, not every gay man/woman is always having random sex with strangers, we're not all lispy, or effeminate and what not. Good topic James Sincerely, James

I love her voice, her laugh, and just her. Hahaha. I use to watch it religiously on lifetime or Nick at Night.

It gives me a headache trying to write what i write. It's very dangerous to read my blog. You should stay away from it. It's known to cause massive amounts of depression and suicidal thoughts. You should stop reading if you have nausea, diarrhea, or constant nose bleeds. James' Blog should not be read by those suffering of diabetes, are pregnant, or have a history of heart Problems. James' blog is not FDA Approved. James

Damien? I like that name, its a nice strong name.... of course i ended up dating a damien, and that didn't turn out well for me... but anyways. maybe they're a couple. LMAO. it'd be just your luck. ^.^ you should run with them, or they should run with you James

LOL. I should put more effort into contacting you. James

Quite possibly. Your not the only guy with an agenda. Don't Apologize. Befriend him if you'd like but there's no reason to apologize. Unless there's something you said/did that you didn't mention. James

Haha. So apparently I'm going to be the first Pisces to reply to this ^.^ Go me! Imaginative and sensitive Compassionate and kind Selfless and unworldly Intuitive and sympathetic On the dark side.... Escapist and idealistic Secretive and vague Weak-willed and easily led Yes, I love using my imagination. And I'm rather good at it, except when my right hand is exercising. Go figure?! I'm rather sensitive. So I tend to keep people at a distance to make sure they don't hurt me. Yeah I'm compassionate and kind. I'm just not good at acting on them. I'm rather selfless (really!) but unworldly ... I'm not so sure. I'm very intuitive. I love it. I use it for evilness. Sympathetic... I think I lost that with my virginity. I had to look up Escapist. I was hoping the definition was different from what I thought it was. It was. Yes. I'm definitely an Escapist (the avoidance of reality by absorption of the mind in entertainment or in an imaginative situation, activity, etc.). Idealistic? Is wanting everyone to be well fed, not poor, not engaged in war and most of all happy too out there? I'm sooo secretive. I'm the secret keeper bitches. Once you tell me, its lost forever. Never to be heard of or spoken of again. Vague? Ooh yes. When it suits me. I love screwing with your mind. Weak willed? No. My will is stronger than yours. Easily led? If you're leading me to my most romantic date (to date) then yes. Otherwise no. I do the leading, you do the following. I'm your savior biatch. James (doesn't know what (or whom) got into him in this post. I apologize for whatever you didn't enjoy.)

Mary Tom Welling... I'll make him happier than his wife. LOL. Sleep with Tom Hanks.... eh. Throw Tom Selleck My picks were Journalist-ish people. hahaha Anderson Cooper Rachel Maddow (on MSNBC, watch her if you haven't, she's a lesbo) Jon Stewart

Thinks that is funny, but I guess it would depend on whom you are James

I got ENTJ. You are: * slightly expressed extravert * slightly expressed intuitive personality * distinctively expressed thinking personality * distinctively expressed judging personality Hehe. The description pretty much says, I'm the bitch in charge. ^.^ James

I had that same problem. Listen... they take all the correct measures to make sure that the blood that they're given isn't contaminated in any way shape or form. It's only this negative stigma that men who have sex with men automatically get hiv/aids that has that whole rule still in place. In fact, there are MANY countries (other Red Cross) who have removed that stupid (cause it is) rule. I don't feel like I'm putting anyone in danger by taking the time to donate blood. In fact, I had a heterosexual friend, who went and gave blood (she hadn't had sex with anyone), and later received a letter from the red cross telling her that blood tested positive for HIV. Well she was distraught to say the least, and she told her parents, and they went to the doctors and got her tested. She wasn't positive. But she was now on the list of people who could not donate blood. And she will never be able to donate blood, even though she's been tested and her test came back negative. So anyways. What I'm saying is you should give blood if you feel comfortable doing so. They have the resources to make sure that if you have any contagious disease, virus, to not give your blood to a doner. If they f**k up, that's on them. Not you. James

OK. Now I'm jealous knowing you'll be at a concert with Katy Perry AND No Doubt

I'm glad you had fun. Dating guys who like to club and are flamboyant from my experience hasn't turned out great. Most of the ones I've had the pleasure (or displeasure) to meet have been more interested in sex more than anything else. Don't get me wrong, I love sex, but when that's all they can think of, and can't carry an interesting conversation... well they just end up boring me to death. Lol. But you may find them interesting and the sex to be phenomenal (I haven't, but I have unreachable standards). Or you may find a guy that can hold a conversation, and is a clubber, and flamboyant, the whole package. Anyways, I'm not telling you this to discourage you finding someone like that. Just don't be overly optimistic. Especially in a club. Hey! I prattle on about nothing! What'cha trying to say? James

Wow this sucks I'm sorry that you're allergic to all those things. And yes, it does sound stupid. James

I'm no mom, but I do realize that you've spent a good portion of your life taking care of others, that you've put their needs in front of yours, and you've forgotten what your needs are. But you do live in Orange County, surely there are enough activity groups in that county that you'd want to join? Like a Norah Roberts group (you like those books don't you?) or a Mom's group. Or a.. "I'm a straight woman that writes man on man love stories"... OKay maybe not the last one... hahaha. But you should take some time and do things that you like and hopefully make friends that way. but IDK, I've never been a mom so I could just be writing stuff that you've already considered and rejected. ttys James

i can barely read my own long blogs, let alone others. I'll get around to actually reading yours soon. lol. i just skimmed. Nice job :-)

I love rants ^.^

I've never had gumbo. And i gotta say this recipe looks good... along with the picture... yum!! -- oops. i dont know hwo to remove it. (a) sorry.

Yay iPhone! de javu....

Hehe... I love blogging, there's just something good about getting things off my chest, that makes me feel a thousand times better and lighter. So i definitely have a passion for that. I also like the idea of sharing my thoughts and ideas with strangers that I'm unlikely to ever meet. but that's me james

OH hai

LOL That's hilarious.

I can be your new friend.

well. goodluck with that. seriously. I know someone who works in that field, and depending on the county you live in, and the amount of funding they get, it can be a ridiculously tough job, or just a plain tough job. My friend S. was working in a county, where they didn't have enough funding to use computer systems, so all her reports had to be written by hand and stuff. So that was very time consuming, she had to spend more time writing reports than she did visiting families and making sure that things were okay and stuff. So I hope you've thought long and hard on the issue. Also she was an english major. So's yeah. GOODLUCK with all that, and I wish you the best.

What kind of social work are you thinking of exactly?