It could have been a lot worse. Still not a strike of kindness lightning where everyone woke up after being stung by the bolt and had a come to Jesus epiphany, but real.
Dad. Dad lives in a real little world where the funeral business is the family. The family are just cogs in a machine. As long as the cogs work smoothly that's all that matters. In removing the college funds from Owen he has for the time being removed Owen from the machinery, thus from the family. With time, there's hope he can broaden his world enough to accept Owen's path doesn't mean he's a cog of the machinery but a caring valuable human being who can contribute to the family as a son.
Eric's reaction was heartfelt. I get the disappointment and hurt on his part. At least he was accepting of the life Owen wants to lead. Seems there will be a continuation of Eric in Owen's life.
Mom. Expectations crushed. She showed her love of Owen in the only way it was possible for her. That's important.
Ryder was exceptional. Just being there in the Ryder way waiting and for two hours. Perfect.
Owen. He did it! Not wavering. Taking the bull by the horns and riding it out with honesty and poise. It was painful and sadly needed for Owen to lead his life on his terms.
As painful it was for Margot, Owen and Ryder to survive their upbringing, they faced the situation as best as they could and came out into true reality. The pain will linger, but it's gotta be a relief.
What a story!