@drpaladin, offered us  two extremes, 'Limerence', it has been called the Fool's Gold of Love, or sounds like a good name for a tasty Key Lime pie?

Let me see, hummm:  in my seventies, single(life long) and slightly( ) overweight, easy peasy, I choose the Key Lime pie!

Having checked multiple hundreds upon hundreds of sites like the rest of you. This one today, caught my attention. In the western world, few have not heard her name or suffers fools lightly, Oprah.

The Science of Being Love Sick - Relationships and Limerence