ooooh, I can't wait to read your anthology story I know it's gonna rule!!!!

If you ever feel like you're ready to tell him but you're afraid of what you'll hear, just think of it this way.....

Telling him and not getting the answer you want might be better than never telling him and not knowing what would've happened.....GO FOR IT

Good Luck

ooooh, I can't wait to read your anthology story I know it's gonna rule!!!!

Thanks Nick!

I can't wait to read your entry too. If it's half as good as your last one, or 'What's the Difference' then we're in for a treat... and treats are what it's all about.

If you ever feel like you're ready to tell him but you're afraid of what you'll hear, just think of it this way.....

 

Telling him and not getting the answer you want might be better than never telling him and not knowing what would've happened.....GO FOR IT

Good Luck

It's weird, but everyone says 'go for it' and I want to, I really do... Yet when it comes down to the moment I just wuss out. Pathetic I know

Back at you!

It's weird, but everyone says 'go for it' and I want to, I really do... Yet when it comes down to the moment I just wuss out. Pathetic I know

Sounds like you need the Zen Buddhist treatment ... having a heavy, bronze Buddha statue thrown at your head. It works wonders, trust me!

If you want sweet, caring, and sensitive advice, ask Kitty ... I'm the hardcore Zen one, so I'm all about "tough love" ... so, here's my advice ... and don't read it if you have a problem with tough love ...

GROW A SET AND TELL HIM OR YOU'RE GONNA REGRET IT!

*this message brought to you by your friendly neighborhood Buddha*

Oh, and I'm looking forward to reading your anthology entry too!

Well, here's my sweet, caring and sensitive advice:

GROW A SET AND TELL HIM OR YOU'RE GONNA REGRET IT!

Seriously, you're a neat guy and have a lot to offer. Do you know what it is that's making you hesitate about saying anything?

Kitty

GROW A SET AND TELL HIM OR YOU'RE GONNA REGRET IT!

I was hoping that he would stumble across GA and this blog, and 'discover' it's me and be so awed at how much I love him ... ride off ... sunset ... etc.

Now, if only he was on line.

So I'll grow a set then, and thanks for the advice. Any suggestions as to fertiliser?

Camy

Let me say, it's a lot easier to give this advice than to be the person taking it. On the other hand, having been a person who chickened out earlier in life on too many occasions, I guess I've finally figured out that I'm not going to live forever. The thought of having regrets later on, of what your life might have been like, can be a pretty good fertilizer, I've found. Sometimes if you don't do it on your own, the universe comes along and gives you a good swift kick in the butt to get you moving. That works, but there is an easier way .

No guarantees, except that if you don't take any risks, you likely won't get what you want, either.

"A ship is safe in harbor, but that's not what ships are for."

OK, well, I was thinking about this some more and am editing to add this: from what you've been saying for quite a while now, you are kind of in limbo with this guy. It could well be that not knowing one way or the other, and being stuck in a "push-pull" where you can't take action, is tying up your energy in other areas of your life as well, keeping you from being able to move forward with other things. Even if it doesn't work out with this guy, you'll be moving yourself out of the holding pattern and freeing up your energy.

Kitty

Not knowing one way or the other, and being stuck in a "push-pull" where you can't take action, is tying up your energy in other areas of your life, keeping you from being able to move forward with other things. Even if it doesn't work out with this guy, you'll be moving yourself out of the holding pattern and freeing up your energy.

That's a perfect description of where I am. It doesn't make the asking the question bit any easier, but it clarifies the problem. Thank you.

Camy