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You know what bugs me about statistics? They're always exaggerated and used to push some kind of agenda. 1 in 10 with gender non-conformity? That's pretty hard to believe. If you ask me, I'd imagine the "real" statistic is something like 1 in 30 or 1 in 40. I also don't buy into the 1 in 10 gay generalization either. They push that number because 10% is double digit, making it more statistically significant and making us seem more prominent. 1 in 10 probably have had a same-sex experience but that doesn't make everyone who's had them gay or bi. A straight advocate could ask me if I've ever thought about or had an experience with the opposite sex and I'd answer yes and they'd check me under the "straight" or "bi" tab even though I'm not really either.

Haha wow, dude that sucks. Were y'all referred to each other or was it a blind blind date? I'm sorry for chuckling, but that isn't at you. This will be one of those moments you'll (hopefully) eventually laugh about too. like you said, don't let it put you out. The 4 people above me covered it pretty well This reminds me of a time a coupla years back...talk about a nut buster. I was talking to a friend of mine and he told me he use to bartend at this gay bar downtown and made a lotta tips cuz guys liked him or whatever. It helped that he was legitimately straight. I don't think he's all that good looking but I guess if he cleans up, cut his hair and made an effort, yeah ok he's prolly an 8, but most of the time he's a fuckin slob. Anyways, 1st semester freshman year I was looking for a part time job and got intrigued about what he just said so I was like "yeah, maybe I can do what you did, you said you made a lotta tips right?" and I was semi-serious about it. His response was something like "Dude you're not that good looking, you're not gonna make money at all" and he wasn't kidding. He prolly saw the "uhhh" look on my face and proceeded to explain how after a while he could tell what gay guys liked and that I wasn't it at all. I laughed it off we moved on to another topic but I was secretly sorta crushed. I was 18, completely closeted, no GA, never dated, never kissed a guy, virgin. I had girls tell me I'm attractive before but I was under the impression gay guys' were different. So I thought, ok he's 24, been around lots of gay guys so maybe he knows what he's talking about...well shit, sucks for me.

For anyone who is wanting to make a few changes in their lives and has goals set up, I wanna really quickly share a tip that's been helpful for me, and that is to write them down and review them frequently. Goals are more effective when they are written down, measurable, specific and time sensitive. Meaning you write down exactly what you want to achieve, have a way to measure progress, and set a deadline. Also helps to have a buddy to keep accountability. For example, i wanna be able to pay off all of my credit card debts plus outstanding student balances and have enough left over to get all of my car problems fixed by the end of May while not dropping below my own comfortable savings levels. I did some maths and it should work out.

Oh look a cute puppy!

Plot. I voted Character at first but then changed it when I remembered how fast I went through books that was so heavily plot plot plot you coulda replaced the main character with BonQuiQui from King Burger and the story woulda been exactly the same. But when it comes to gay-themed story, it's all about characters. There's no point in reading a gay story if I don't get to know who's in it and what they're all about.

Y'all are awesome. A round of drinks on me Joek, I actually was . I'm not worried about dealing with reality. We all got to eventually. I just don't like being out of my comfort zone and away from all my peers.

I've been feeling a little off lately but wouldn't say it's anything too bad. Most of the time whenever I get into this weird mood, I feel like it's just me complaining and I hate to be a complainer, so realizing it either gets to me shake it off and cheer up or I just end up feeling guilty about feeling bad. Gah...prolly makes no sense. I think I'm experiencing a quarter-life crisis. You know how even if you were a big shot in high school, when you get to college all of the sudden you no more special than the next guy? I had completely overlooked that this could happen again and it did happen again. Corporate America is like a 12 inch dildo that's been forcefully shoved up your ass. Where the hell is my "RA" to lube me up??? Plus this whole suit and tie thing is like a friggin uniform and I don't get to bedazzle. Wah wah I know I know.

Because you want your head in Michael Cera

Yeah, and I heard health benefits on the Imperial Star Destroyer sucks.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CURTITHAMUEL!!!!!!!!! I <3 YOU WITH THE RED HOT BURNING INTENSITY OF GONORRHEA

Im only 22 so I probably have no clue what I'm talking about but I'm a big believer in nature and letting things run their natural courses. I think when people over analyze how life should be lived, it can actually disrupt how life can be best lived. While I'm not criticizing any sort of parenting style, as far as I am personal concerned, I think it is much much better to just let things be rather than tweak things according to how we believe they "should" be, especially if nothing was broken to begin with. I'm only talking about gender identity and awareness though, I'm not talking in regards to "good behavior" or "bad behavior". If God wanted there to be only 1 sex and gender...he'd have created only 1 sex. (so to speak...I'm agnostic)

Let's go back to the basics...

Way to screw a kid over. This is the kind of thing that can ruin a person's life and totally warp his/her mind.

There's really no question that I like The Cock and I suppose it's been that way forever. I think one of the first times I've really noticed was during a hockey game when I found myself looking at the players and wondering what they'd look like without all the protective pads on rather than focusing on the game itself. As my mom once said casually: men watch a game for the game, women watch a game for the players. I guess I'm lucky enough to get both in 1 sitting The little details of it all is still a work in progress and I have no plans on sharing it with friends or family as of now. I'd like to think I know who I am, the next step is just figuring out what it means to me and where I'm going to take it, because after-all it's really the things we do with ourselves that define our lives in a much more significant way.

I only know like 2 of her songs but my mom was a big fan of hers and yeah, she was a great singer/performer. There goes another iconic figure RIP

Since this is Anya we're talkin' bout, no wonder romance wasn't enough. She needed sex - filthy sex - and lots of it and since the movie had wolves....wow Anya, you're kinda gross

Yea, a long time ago. I don't remember too much about it although I'm a pretty big fan of all the Miyazaki Japanese anime movies. The score to Spirited away was amazing, and I taught myself the piano suite to Kiki when I was still in high school. (btw does anyone else think that "Kiki" is kiiiind of a stripper name? I mean I love the movie but you take someone name "Kiki" and give her a broom, which is essentially a pole....I really just can't get over it)

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Now that's just misrepresentation. The door's pretty much dead bolted these days....but there's still a doggie door with some people's names on it. Youuuu live in a box....youuu have a box terrier name Chatter.....youuu like to talk about boxing....?

"Your best"? Gee WL, way to be all politically correct and proper. Don't you know me at all? You get the option to edit your member title in your profile after you've reached a milestone of some sort. Yours is still on default I think and it says "prolific member" about your picture.

My title's just "title" Was hopin' y'all could tell me what it should be.

Walmart's evil. It keeps crushing my dreams of opening up a Bangmart.

I think she's 60. I enjoyed the whole thing, esp with lmfao and cee lo