I find this topic horribly amusing, but then I have a bit of an... Odd sense of humor...
There was a point that cross-dressing I found horribly weird, now Not so much, but then i had a friend who liked the idea of crossdressing himself. Besides which it's not just a gay thing, I knew strait guys who've done it.
would I wear a dress... never, would I marry a guy who's wearing a dress... oh yeah that would be fun, especially taking it off the night after the wedding.... That is my take on this whole controversy that seems to be going on here...
Or nothing at all
Sadly I would have to agree with Curti, without knowing what your to-be's definitions and what their tastes, and what they look like it's kind of hard to pick a dress, however I'd have to say: remove the breast cups, the dress will look better on him...
heck i'd mold it to his body and specs.
But I am not a designer of clothing, And I doubt I have much of a fashion sense, I only know what looks good to me.