I think I will just pass a few quick comments.
1) Nathan - I don't think there is one of us who doesn't agree it was far too soon for him. His future was bright and to have it cut short goes to show you how much you have to enjoy your life. You don't know when it will end and for what reason. My heart goes out to his friends and family as they deal with this tragedy.
2) Harcallard - Birthdays are just a chance to renew yourself. I've had birthday bashes and birthday disasters. There are things you can control and things you can't. Seems like you are taking no chances and preparing to have a blast. I'm glad you are. My friends will tell you I try never to let a holiday go by without a card, a call, or a gift. Sometimes a bit of all of them. It is for the simple reason they mean something to me. Just as you hate being forgotten try to remember to reach out to your friends when there is an occasion in their lives. Help to make it special by being you. Enjoy your birthday and I wish you the joy and love you deserve.
3) Mark - If I could simply make you see how beautiful you really are. Life comes at you, for some gently for others like a freight train off the rails. You deal with things and keep right on going. Your life is full, with your farm, Stu, your farm hands, and your friends. Remember to enjoy the gifts life brings you and forgive those who mistreat you, not for their sake, but so you can move on and forget the pain of being reminded. It isn't always easy but for your own peace of mind, it is so worth it. Remember there are those who love and care about you.
Was a long day at work and my job is restructuring. Time will tell what that means to me personally, but truthfully I am not worried. That I suppose is scary in and of itself.
For those in need here is a , and remember to always share a cause they are free and take few muscles to make than a frown.