Thanks for these, Parker. Both are brilliant in showing how we relate to ourselves (and also in the writing). If those who love us see 'perfection', it is more than enough. Life takes it's toll on our bodies, but fortunately we hold on to our ability to love, even if it takes longer to walk up the stairs.
There is a danger to the quest for perfection... narcissism is a roadblock to love, and satisfaction will always be elusive. I accept who I am... and the journey which made the marks. Cheers!