Ray....they have thrown away an invaluable treasure in you. They have failed you and they have failed God. We are familiar with the 5th Commandment, Honour you Father and your Mother. But, as with every one of the Commandments there is a flip side that is inferred. St. Paul identified this in his letter to the Colossians: Colossians 3:2121 Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.it's a softball kind of statement for what it's intent means. This meaning that it is incumbent upon parents to love their children as much as God loves them. Endlessly, unconditionally, and never ever throwing them away. Do not grieve your children and waste the greatest gift two parents could ever be given. To do so is to deny their own flesh and worse, to throw back in God's face what He has entrusted them with. It is a sin.
so....if their 'killing' you in their hearts was religiously motivated, then they must understand that it is they who have sinned against God and against you. They have failed in their greatest duty and it is they who require forgiveness and repentance. Not you.
God Bless You, Sweetheart. I'm glad that you and Luke have found happiness together. This too is a great gift.