Nope, regardless at what I'd found or not found I'd have dumped him, so you were right on one thing, the relationship was over. I just needed to see it with my own eyes, don't ask me why I just did. My friend had already confirmed that he was cheating on me, & she had absolutely no reason to lie. I've known her all my life & trust her 100%. When someone you know that well tells you something like that, you listen! Plus my trust in her was vindicated, she had told me the truth when no one else would.
I had never gone through his things before then, even though something had been niggling for a while.
Everything seems so cut & dried looking in, people turning their noses up at your actions. It's ok to sit on a pedestal all holier than thou, and pass judgment, but until it happens to you, you will never understand. The feeling of betrayal is unlike anything I can describe, I just hope that one day you don't end up going through a partners mobile to confirm what you already know.