FrenchCanadian

It certainly annoying if someone will start denying about being gay out loud, for any reason, if there's rumors about it, either say nothing, or confirm it. nice choice of word in this situation indeed

I dunno, we're talking about new members,, we don't have that many new members per week.. Tho I agree, it won't be long,, I say between 3 weeks and a month

I'll have to give the answer of my best friend on this one. "I'll have a c-section"

I gotta agree that Mika does seems like he's very well and has lots of energy to give, an outspoken person he would be a good spokesperson. But if he don't want to display his private life to everyone, it,s his prerogative. I also totally agree about Aiken. He's way too shy to be able to take part of the gay community on his shoulder.

Nah,, I'm sure that he have a much better cause than that. More like Ed Harris in the rock,,,

Well Mika doesn't talk about his private life in public,, which I think is the best. Therefore we have no idea if it's true,, Ricky martin,, the first time I hear about it,,,, But you're totally right,, it would hurt the career of actor more than musicians. The only few actors that are openly gay that I can think of,, ends up only having roles of gay guy,,, (rupert everett, nathan lane)

Ya, that is right, I can remember not that long ago when that photograph came in montreal to take pictures of nudes in montreal,, there was no problems,, so ya that makes sense,,, but if the intend is to be sexual,, that's another story

To love more than one, to care for more than one, I totally believe that it is possible. I was in that situation once. And I know that I could have been with the both of them and I would have been more than happy. Yes, its difficult,, and most of the people will think it's strange and can't be possible.

I have to say,, on all my IMs clients aside from my sister and 2-3 friends, all my contacts are gays. Currently all my best friends are gay (aside from 2) It's mainly that I tend no to go out often so or to open up that easily. Of course I have good acquaintance at work and at school that aren't but I don't get friendly with them outside work. This makes that mainly gets my friends from online,, and for some reason they are gay. It's also easier for me to relates to them.

aren't you supposed to have a boyfriend and more or less being married, colin hehe, Oh dang, why haven't seen any in montreal yet,, I mean we're supposed to be high fashioned in montreal!!

It is indeed a good article, thanks Myr for bringing it up to us. I know that in the entertainment business, specially in the music business, you can easily find gay people. But to be out you need some extra courage as you become right there the poster boy (or girl) for many others.

It's a pretty good euphemism, but even if he said something about "loose ends" it doesn't mean that he wants it. He's just compelled to do it. see even BK have to agree with me on that maybe you do need an advocate,, but don't count on me to advocate your cause in spreading lies about the sweet dear Goat.

Thanks you very much graeme it sounds like it'S gonna be an interesting chapter, as always

ummm, ya i'm sure that it would indeed clear the air alright... now, now, it's never been said that he likes to have people killed,,, maybe he just have to do it for the greater good

as always, I perfectly understand that you can't make any comment on the speculation here... ummm, can someone tell me what "whitsundays" means? Oh no! steve, you're starting to be sneaky about it!!!! It's very bad you're using this method to get thru CJ lol you know he's trying to get everything perfect,, don't try to change the meaning of his word on ground of typo I don't think a 5 letter in a row typo exist.

you seem to believe that Helen don't take no for answer, LOL, that she always get what she wants

This is true, there's a different dynamic between two men and between a man and a woman. Maybe it's easier for 2 men to get along from the start. Now about guys are not taught how to maintain a relationship, I wouldn't say that,, the really relates on what are the examples there are around you. A relationship requires attention and nurturing, as you said. I don't want to be sexist or degrading, but if a guy only had example of relationship where it's the woman that finally back down and always do the good thing for the couple, yes I can understand that that guy may have difficult to make things work in his relationships. But if you been living having example where the both make compromises and give into the relationship, well chances are that you'll know what to do to make things work. (hopefully this make some sense) Of course it's more complicated that just that, but it can be a start you guys already have a head start on most of everyone ; you guys are willing to make it last, and I'm sure that you guys are doing everything you can to make it last. Kevin is totally right on this one,,, the only reason why you can see younger couple not lasting is that when you're young you're still changing,, you might still be student, and see thing differently,, then when you get to the working world, your mentality change and have different belief, different aspiration. It is easier to grow apart...

hehe exactly, LoL. or simply that because there's exposed body flesh, it doesn't mean that they do any less censorship

no, it wouldn't be any different from test tube babies and infertility treatments. And I'd be alright with it as long as we are sure that it is all safe for the baby.

I think that there's a difference between advertising a relationship and doing everything you can to hide it. And I know it's stupid to say but, at 37, if you really want it, who cares what your mother has to say,, you're old enough to make your own decision and you're at an age where you don't require their support as much as, say a 15 who still have to live with them. Your mom and his parents will either have to tolerate it or will loose you. normally with some time they would be alright enough to at least tolerate that fact. If that ain't the case, I'm really sorry for you, that's horrible I'm in no mean want to be harsh with you, and I certainly can understand your reason why you wouldn't want,, but in your case you are both in the closet to your parent I take it,, therefore it's not included in my original comment.

Alright, maybe,, but by itself it won't be something to convince Helen of his wrongdoing. Also, the band wouldn't learn that Jerry haven't gone to the hospital,, ,until maybe when they'll call themselves Joe,, and somehow, Joe will let it slip that his dad didn't visited him.

ya, enough,, but I'm afraid that it is a lost cause,, what did Eric was thinking when he went and messed with Jerry, sending him flying in the pool... he created his demise

Alright, also off topic,,, I didn't know that,, but I always wondered why ken was deprived of any form of genitalia,,, at least barbie has her boobs, life is so unfair, LOL

, see, I'd say that vanilla sex is less than a passionate love-making, more random. Me, I know that I could place my entire confidence in someone. In a relationship, I have got to be able to trust my entire life on my partner. Of course, I'm not giving that trust from the start. Usually I'm a pretty good judge of character and I can easily spot the kind of guy that I'm with. It does sounds bitter to say the least. Love is not overrated, every kind of love is highly needed.

There always censorship where ever you go. Yes, in europe their mentality is different. They probably are more liberals when it comes to exposed flesh, I'll think about beaches where it won't be special to see ladies sunbathing topless. But, it's not all open to everything either. As they say, the grass is always greener on the neighbor's lawn.