Are you in a long term relationship? Do you think your partner has become complacent?

The reason I ask is, Chris and I used to do loads of really romantic stuff all the time. Now it feels a little like we're an old married couple lol. I'm not saying that's a bad thing, hell no! I wouldnt change what we have for anything. Just maybe a few more romantic nights would be nice

I got to thinking about this after a dream I had today, We were on holiday at this beach. It was evening and we were sitting on the sand right in front of the water line. I could feel the water just reaching my toes. The sun was setting before us and it looked beautiful.

Chris was sitting with me pressed right against his chest. His feet were hooked over mine and his hands were wrapped around my stomach. His head was resting on my shoulder while my was pressing back slightly increasing our contact just a little.

We sat there talking, basically just telling each other how we feel. It was the most realistic dream I ever remember having. It's something I'd liek to make happen for us one day

I think I need to come up with something really nice to do for him, because lets face it there are two people in this relationship so we both need to make a little extra effort once in a while. Now I just need to work out what I'm gonna do lol

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