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Act Like an Adult...


So it seems recently that some people around here cannot seem to play well with others. Take it from me. Calling people names or publicly attacking them is not the answer. There's no reason to go around calling people names simply because you disagree with them. I realize that people have different views on things. That's a good thing. I don't expect people to agree with me about everything. I learned the hard way about what can happen when one goes too far. At one time, some people even wanted me banned. Luckily, I was given a chance to clean up my act. At that time, I was unstable, but the way I expressed it was wrong. Taking out my frustrations with life on others proved to be more of a problem than it was worth. If you find that you can't play well with others, then quite frankly, it may be time to take a break from the site and spend your time elsewhere until such time that it doesn't bother you as much. I've noticed that there's actually a great tolerance for misdeeds here, but it has been done. People have been banned from this site. So if you want to continue to be a part of the community, calm down and hold your tongue. Take it from me, people. It's not worth it. That kind of attention isn't a good thing.

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MikeL

Posted

Thanks, Tim. I needed that.

Mark Arbour

Posted

Allow me to offer an alternative to "calm down and hold your tongue." I think it would fit with your blog message better to say "calm down and express your views." ;)

thatboyChase

Posted

If I took time off from GA, how would it be fun anymore?

Tiger

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Allow me to offer an alternative to "calm down and hold your tongue." I think it would fit with your blog message better to say "calm down and express your views." ;)

 

If views can be expressed without insulting people or being disrupted, there's not a problem. In the past, I've been guilty of insulting people, but if whenever I am tempted now, I simply avoid saying anything at all. :)

 

If I took time off from GA, how would it be fun anymore?

 

Well, there was a time when I wasn't nearly as active on the site. It was a good thing for me to do that. I was later able to come back with a better perspective and greater appreciation for everyone as a whole. I even mended a few fences so to speak. And believe me, I can piss people off, maybe even more than you can. :P

NaperVic

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In the past, I've been guilty of insulting people, but if whenever I am tempted now, I simply avoid saying anything at all.

 

Well, there was a time when I wasn't nearly as active on the site. It was a good thing for me to do that. I was later able to come back with a better perspective and greater appreciation for everyone as a whole. I even mended a few fences so to speak. And believe me, I can piss people off, maybe even more than you can

 

Grown up looks good on you specool.gif

 

 

Hoskins

Posted

Ya know, I've not been around here long, but I sure see a lot of drama and "politicking"on this site. I think its because it has a younger demographic. But what I think is irrelevant. What I really want to say is that drama and politicking are fine, whatever floats your boat. But why do it when there's no make up sex?

Mark Arbour

Posted

Wait, there's no make up sex? :angry:

 

f**k. :P

Tiger

Posted

f**k? How ironic a word for you to use in that instance. As there is no make up sex, there's no f**king either. :P

 

Hoskins, as to what you were saying. There's a political forum for a reason, and it is heavily moderated for yet another. Expressing your views is a good thing. Personally attacking another member of GA is another matter. That line is often blurred, but I can say this. The forum moderation team does a great job at sorting it all out. However, there have been times when admins have had to step in, but that seems to be a rarity that extra actions have to be taken. They don't like to do it. People get plenty of chances around here, but it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that a select few are skating on thin ice nonetheless, so I thought I would share some insights.

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