paya Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 I got a similar vibe, Paya. Wade's definitely not as screwed up, but he reminds me a little bit of Roger when he was with Stef.
Mark M Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 Hmm Mark usualy doesn't delvelop in to out right abuse more like conspricy.....so daddy paid someone to do it :O But i honestly think your on the right track paya....didn't cross my mind cuz mark hasn't writting much of abuse exept for stefs french history. If it is that fact then, mine and wades situations are entirly different, although i thought that we might have a similar reason for the lashing out and making out with a chick and the pressure to suddenly come out....i don't know either way i'm excited for tomorrow.....1....new Bloodlines....2......Twlight Saga: New Moon, is released and Taylor Lautner is SOOO HOT SO! HOT
alphadog415 Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 tutti - So poor ole Wade is being raped and sexually blackmailed. Almost a cliche for a son of a powerful family with deep roots. ( Ahem, Mark, someone you know?) Being f****d sends him off to his safe place. That's going to take a long time to over come. However NOW there is love in his life. Matt is still what Wade needs and Wade is what Matt needs. They have a lot to give each other and a lot of growing and maturing to do. This should be a fun ride. Alas along the way they will as the Chinese saying goes; "Live in interesting times". Love is worth it. Santa Cruz was nice! Warm, gentle love making and walks on the beach. Wish I knew what they were saying then... But that's just the gossip hound in me and the tab keeper. I was not surprised by Wades' actions at the sorrority. I mean that's the way his life is played. He should have sat Matt down for a heart to heart about women. I mean they just don't count. They're like having the proper curtains on the parlor windows. The parlor, there is the perfect example of the s**t, of certain families. A room filled with beautiful furniture, art, expensive rugs, elegant draperies, that you are never allowed to be in except to "entertain". A showpiece, a woman. Yup and the next thing after that little talk Matt would proceed to tare(sp?) that crap apart. But at least he'd know the lay of the land and what he was facing. OK. I'm going to get off the box now... Dave
Ivy Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 I was going to start out with something else but that pic popped up and I totally lost my train of thought. wow! <digs mind out of gutter> I'm not sure I'm going to survive till we figure some of this out. There are so many theories popping into my head. I agree that there is probably abuse somewhere in Wade's past. So what if it wasn't Daddy Dearest? <totally guessing here> Could it have happened with an uncle or family friend and instead of going to the authorities, Daddy hushed it up and ordered Wade to keep quiet with threats like "no more hockey?" hence the resentment? speaking of hockey, as good as Wade is, you know there were lots of hockey tournements (overnight trips), maybe a hockey coach? does Wade have an older brother? Also, and I have no practical experience here, but would Wade just come out and mention an abusive situation like that in not so many words? What if he is talking about someone that knows he is gay and is bribing him with outing him if he doesn't continue "putting out"? Maybe something totally separate from the early abuse? Maybe he dated this person and really cared about him, but they turned on him to get money or political influence? Mark, see what you've done to my brain! I'm getting no work done! <back's slowly away from the keyboard>
alphadog415 Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 tutti - Guys! I guess I should have read everyones posts before writing mine. Don't be too hard on Wade and don't give up the hope! Remember the cuddle! Just keep that in mind. Yeah Wades baggage is the size of a friggin elephant, but it's not like Matt doesn't have his own. He just ignores it and salves his uncertainties with being a slut. Easy to be a slut when you think you could die any day. It's also easy to tell some one else to blow off their family, when you just pretend you don't have to concern yourself with your own. Matt has baggage too. So, the dad as the rapist? Interesting thought. Creepy too! The dad as a closet case bisexual/gay definitely fits the stereo type uber hater. The rapist is someone in a position of power in Wades' life. It started early, hense his tuning out to a safe zone. But I'm more comfortable with the sexual blackmail and making him feel inadequate vis-a-vis his families status and history. Some other power figure in his family or life. But yeah, they would have been around a long time... His shame is deep. Dave
alphadog415 Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 By the way, Mark M, the jail bait eye candy is totaly unfair! 'Course it's also the sole reason I might one day rent New Moon.
Mark M Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 By the way, Mark M, the jail bait eye candy is totaly unfair! 'Course it's also the sole reason I might one day rent New Moon. muwhaha who cares about off topic it's mark freeking arbours form hehehe i'm sure he loves the eye candy either way....just remember guys he's 18 Born 1992. Two years after me...But i wouldn't rent....i'd go to the theatre opening night and watch....oh wait....i am.....lol
Tiger Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 I appreciated the eye candy. He turns 18 soon, so why not perv on him a bit. He's all man as far as my eyes can tell. I think you all may be right about the sexual abuse. That'd be a major scandal if it got out. Oh, I'd love to see that. I suspect that's not all though.
Hoskins Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Wade's dad isn't the abuser. It's a sibling or family friend. His dad is rabidly antigay, Wade's abuser is in a position to blackmail him with telling Dad? Or dad favors a sibling that abuses Wade, and dad constantly puts this in Wade's face and shames him with it. Wade is complicated.
GoWithIt Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 muwhaha who cares about off topic it's mark freeking arbours form hehehe i'm sure he loves the eye candy either way....just remember guys he's 18 Born 1992. Two years after me...But i wouldn't rent....i'd go to the theatre opening night and watch....oh wait....i am.....lol Again off topic, but saving a fellow member from committing a felony is a good reason to be off topic. Mark, I think you should check your math, if he's born in 1992 and its 2009, then he is 17 at most and 16 if his birthday hasn't happened yet. Meaning the boy is still jb.
Tiger Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Wade's dad isn't the abuser. It's a sibling or family friend. His dad is rabidly antigay, Wade's abuser is in a position to blackmail him with telling Dad? Or dad favors a sibling that abuses Wade, and dad constantly puts this in Wade's face and shames him with it. Wade is complicated. Sometimes those with the most to hide are the most homophobic. Don't forget that. There are self-hater types. Plus, it's probably rape and more about control and subversion. He hates his dad a great deal. That could easily be the reason why.
Mark Arbour Posted November 20, 2009 Author Posted November 20, 2009 Well aren't you just the busy guessers today?
hombre Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Well aren't you just the busy guessers today? Ye sthey are Mark, and it has me wanting the next chapter even more to find out what the heck is going on! Hurry! Hurry! Hurry! Hurry! PLEASE!!!!!
Enric Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 (edited) 32: poor Wade. there must be something like abuse at his home. I have a feeling that my appetite will be gone when the things get revealed in the story.... urgh Edited November 20, 2009 by Enric
Mark Arbour Posted November 20, 2009 Author Posted November 20, 2009 Ye sthey are Mark, and it has me wanting the next chapter even more to find out what the heck is going on! Hurry! Hurry! Hurry! Hurry! PLEASE!!!!! Like the next chapter will answer any of these questions!
Mark M Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 I guess that it's something entirly different then abuse. Although Abuse fits, i betcha it's something else were not thinking of....? Ops math is wronge....sorrys well no1 let me handle there finances....financial services....has no math really....and when it does....well....it's harder than adding.....what will i Do!!! ah travel and follow taylor laurtner all over the world
Mark Arbour Posted November 20, 2009 Author Posted November 20, 2009 I guess that it's something entirly different then abuse. Although Abuse fits, i betcha it's something else were not thinking of....? Ops math is wronge....sorrys well no1 let me handle there finances....financial services....has no math really....and when it does....well....it's harder than adding.....what will i Do!!! ah travel and follow taylor laurtner all over the world Hey there handsome...you double posted this so I deleted one for you.
alphadog415 Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Mark - "Well aren't you just the busy guessers today? " Guessers? We are endeavoring upon an intellectual exorcise using the source material to better understand the varieties of the human psyche as represented in the source characters. You should feel free to jump right in... Dave tutti - Could someone please tell me how to get quoted material to appear in those cool boxes in my posts? Paahhleeease!!
hombre Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Mark - "Well aren't you just the busy guessers today? " Guessers? We are endeavoring upon an intellectual exorcise using the source material to better understand the varieties of the human psyche as represented in the source characters. You should feel free to jump right in... Dave tutti - Could someone please tell me how to get quoted material to appear in those cool boxes in my posts? Paahhleeease!! you mean like how your post appears above? just clcik the reply button in the post you want to quote.
Mark M Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 you mean like how your post appears above? just clcik the reply button in the post you want to quote. wow not even i knew that...always multiquoted Thanks sexi for deleting.my laptop must hate postin on here....lets see if i can stop double posting....and hopefully this one won't be ONE haha It's FRIDAY :D New moon and bloodlines will make my day today!!
hombre Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 (edited) It's FRIDAY New moon and bloodlines will make my day today!! quoted for truth!! btw Mark M "Vampires Rule!! Wolves Drool!! TEAM EDWARD!!" Edited November 20, 2009 by gmendias
Mark Arbour Posted November 20, 2009 Author Posted November 20, 2009 There's another way to put something in quotes. When you reply (not fast reply) you'll see a string of icons on the second row. Four icons from the right of the smiley is the "quote" icon, so if you want to turn something into a quote, highlight it and click on that icon. It won't give you a name, but you can still see it in a quote box.
Daisy Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Again off topic, but saving a fellow member from committing a felony is a good reason to be off topic. Mark, I think you should check your math, if he's born in 1992 and its 2009, then he is 17 at most and 16 if his birthday hasn't happened yet. Meaning the boy is still jb. only in america, and where-ever else. the uk is 16.
Mark Arbour Posted November 20, 2009 Author Posted November 20, 2009 only in america, and where-ever else. the uk is 16. That's right. So no coming to America and trolling for 16 year olds, got it?
Mark M Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 quoted for truth!! btw Mark M "Vampires Rule!! Wolves Drool!! TEAM EDWARD!!" hmm Cake...yumm...ops off topic hehehe WOLVES well do drool....technically...i'll find out for sure tonight.....but TEAM JACOB!!! he's so much better looking only in america, and where-ever else. the uk is 16. Canada it's illegal to have sex with someone under 18 if your 18 or over but legal age to give concent to sex is 16....so technically if i trust the young one won't tell anyone that can get me into trouble....(Best be preped to be in a two year relationship, in whatever way the 16yr old wishes....he has blackmail power, which is brutal....so technically my hands lie in the power of my best friend as i am 19 and he is well 17 haha oh well i trust him.)
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