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First off dude, sleeping around with people when your girlfriend doesn't know is pretty low and disrespectful. If she agrees to it, then have at it. But if she doesn't you can't have both without ruining people's trust in you. Choose one or the other. And like I said before, being an alpha male is just something your born with and can't learn but you don't have to be an alpha male to get laid all the time.

As damaging as that may sound to some, James is right. There has to be sexual attraction for a relationship to work. If a 20 year old guy is dating a 55 year old guy, come on, don't tell me he's not pulling a Anna Nicole Smith. Dating someone your own age is a much better recipe for success (of course theres exceptions, but I would not date someone more then 5 years older then me unless I'm broke )

I disagree. It makes you a hero among guys if you sleep with tons of hot chicks. It will make women hate you (even though they fall for your bullshit charm when its their turn) and men idolize you. I remember my first day here at college, I heard a bunch of guys talking about the golden rule: Find 'em, F**k 'em, Forget 'em.

Kinda sorta not really but yes. Ok, so my parents know and so does my brother (but my brother doesn't really count). My doctor knows because during my annual physical I always get the sex question. I told her the truth and she asked 'guys or girls?' and I said guys. So she knows. One other adult that I really trust knows also. I never came out in high school because even though I wasn't a pushover and strong enough to defend myself, a group of retarded rednecks can make your life miserable. In college, sigh, not yet, sorta. When I go to visit my boyfriend up at his college everyone there knows I'm gay. I don't care that they know because they don't really know me and I have a very masculine look that says 'I'm no pussy fem-boy gay'. At my own college, I'm not out yet but I feel some of my girl friends may suspect based on some of the things they say but I don't know for sure. I plan to come out in college, but I need to prove my manliness and masculinity first to them so they don't look at me as the pussy faggot, but as the normal bro who likes everything we do but just happens to be gay. I wrote a more detailed version here. Link.

First off, alpha males have a certain natural look to them. They are usually tall, with a broad strong build which gives off a sense of power and dominance. So just having the look of power and strength helps. Second, they are confident in what they do and go in knowing they will be better then everyone else at whatever it is. Third, people have a natural gravitation to follow them. Do macho things like go to the gym, play competitive contact sports, and don't show weakness. Its as much about looks as it is personality. I don't think one can learn to become an alpha male. Its just a personality that people are born with and have reinforced by the idolizing of macho male culture. They don't show weakness and they are just good. Plain and simple. If you aren't this type of guy, sorry dude, but I don't think you can just pick it up like that. I consider myself rather masculine and strive to be macho and dominant in the way I do things. It wasn't something I learned or wanted to become, its just who I am. Its as much a part of me as my arms and my legs. Think King Leonidas from the movie 300. He's a perfect example of an alpha male. Theres a reason I have him as my avatar.

Haha, thats like when I sold my Montreal Expos bobble-head during their final '04 season for $50. I went right back to the guy who worked for the Expos and got another one for free. You're right, theres one born every minute.

I think you should start a blog to talk about this kind of stuff instead of starting a whole thread.

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Me doing one of my favorite things. The mountain hired a guy to come and take these pics for the website. I forgot to smile in this one. It kept saying my picture was too big to upload even when I resized it so I had to post it on photobucket instead. Pic. This was a cruiser run, not a high speed run. Thats why my angles are very low, if anyone gets that, probably not. Oh well.

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He's hot but I'd invite many other people into my bed before him.

LOL.

A razor and trimmer to keep it neat and tidy, but not get rid of it all. If you let it grow wild its like exploring through a jungle when you go down. But if you shave everything away it looks like you're a 8 year old boy.

My first kiss I was so excited and nervous I forgot to breath through my nose, so when we finally pulled away I was gasping for air.

Like I've said before, help those who want to be helped. Let the ones who don't die off. Society is better off without them.

Is it scary that he looks exactly like I pictured him to look like?

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

Haha, that reminds me of the scene in Vacation when Chevy Chase stops to ask for directions in the ghetto of St. Louis and they all steal his hubcaps.

Not in any order.... Brady Quinn. He may suck at quarterback in the NFL, but boy is he hot. Cristiano Ronaldo. I hate soccer, but I'll watch it if this guy is playing. Thomas Finchum and David Boudia. Two of the hottest divers in speedos. Bode Miller. The hottest guy on skis and a native of my home state.

You mean as a lesbian right?

My ghetto trumps all your ghettos! Chester, PA baby.

LOL James.

In straight relationships, the guy always proposes to the girl. Thats just how it goes. But what about in same-sex relationships? When they want to make the next step, who's job is it to propose? Is it the more manly of the two (in a gay relationship)? Is it something mutual that they just agree upon to get married? Is proposing just a straight people thing that isn't really pertinent to same-sex relationships? Do any gay people who are married/engaged have any stories to tell? This is a really interesting sociological question that got me thinking.....

Man I'm envious. Colorado in the winter is a skier's wet dream.