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Stud.

As the defending GA NHL Hockey Playoff Pool champion, I am definitely in.

Lol at the GG reference. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

You gotta remember that the majority of WBC members are incestual spawns from Phelp's own family. They show up to get attention from the media, and there are plenty of groups who have sprung up to counter their pathetic little antics, like the Patriot Guard Riders. I would seriously hope that people can see through this little group for what they are: Not Christians, but a cult led by a delusional maniac on a power trip.

An all time classic. Back when music was actually good.

My dad has an old copy of this book that he picked up while he was still in the Army. I found it one day and glanced over it, but didn't read much. Hmmm, maybe I'll have to go back and look through it more thoroughly now.

I'm going to kill you........

I did have an '03 VW Jetta. As soon as I left for college, my brother inherited it and has since completely trashed it.

So what? Snooki is just another piece of garbage being tossed into the giant dumpster that is New Jersey.

The 3 Ninjas movies. We always used to watch them.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LUGH!!!

Crumblin' Down by John Mellencamp.

Well, I have several female friends but 75% of my friends are guys. Most of my girl friends while they are still very girly, can hang with the guys and fit in pretty well, which is probably why were friends with them. Girls are much better to be around when your day sucks, or something went wrong etc. Guys (including myself) tend to be much less sympathetic to that kind of stuff. But no, I wouldn't call them my fag hags because I really don't do gay things.

If you don't like it then just ignore it or grow thicker skin. I have things said to me all the time and I just ignore them. I don't go around asking for an apology from anyone.

Ok fine, then I guess according to your definition I'm a f**king homophobe who hates on fem boys and actively seeks to make their life miserable. I admit in the past I was somewhat homophobic because from what I knew you were looked down upon if you were gay, and I did not want to be looked down upon. I only recently came to terms with it, and I've accepted it. I know I'm not a homophobe. Looking with a precarious eye on people who perpetuate a negative stereotype and make things harder is perfectly reasonable. I don't go out seeking to make people like this miserable. I ignore them best as I can, but sometimes you always can't because they drag you down. I know I'm not a homophobe and I really could give a flying f**k if you people think I am.

Ah yes, the "internalized homophobia" argument. Whenever someone doesn't want to act like a campy queen and instead is masculine they accuse that person of being homophobic. I did not mold myself. Even if I was raised in a town of nothing but campy fem queens I would still be the way I am now. People didn't get the stereotype of gays being wimpy and weak from out of the blue. Behind every stereotype there is some degree of truth. And we as a community, for whatever reason, love to put up the people who fall into that negative stereotype as poster children, and keep the normal acting ones out of the spotlight. Yeah, thats gonna win us a lot of favor.

I'm sorry, but what constitutes masculinity is almost universally the same anywhere you go. Ask anyone walking down the street what masculinity means and you will most likely get the same answers over and over again. Its a very narrow definition, and not considered all that broad by the general public. Now whether that is right or wrong is a matter of opinion. Also, just because a gay guy is masculine does not mean he is insecure or trying to become straight. I hate the fact that some of the more effeminate gays criticize more "straight acting" gay guys for supposedly looking down on the more campy gays, yet they turn around on us and say "oh he's not one of us, he's a traitor". Some of us were raised in environments where being "campy" was not an acceptable choice. I was raised in a very competitive environment where the strong got ahead and the weak and "un-manly" got left behind. I learned from a young age how to act and what I had to do to get ahead. I learned to become competitive and to do what I had to to get to the top and become the best. I never saw the effeminate, "gay acting" guys get there, but the masculine, "straight" ones always did. So I molded myself accordingly and got to where I am today because of it. Do I sometimes look at effeminate guys with a glaring eye? Yes, I do sometimes because they perpetuate the stereotype that brings us all down. Do I think that they should not be allowed to be like that? Of course not, be however you wanna be, but its not me at all.

This guy is the lowest form of scum on Earth. At the very least you should warn people in your area about this guy because once a pedophile, always a pedophile.

Well I don't know all the technical bits, but I remember in the late '90s using slow as death AOL, but back then I thought it was awesome. We always used to get the free sample discs in the mail from them too. I remember the first time I used high speed, and I was blown away that you could click and the whole page would be loaded in just a couple seconds, and you could talk on the phone at the same time, lol. Funny story about AOL and the phone line. When I was 12, I first discovered the Playboy website when I had my first computer in my room to myself. One morning I was on looking at porn, and my dad picked up the phone but got a busy tone. He figured someone was on the internet and came into my room to check to see if it was me. Well, he opened the door and I couldn't click out of the page fast enough and there right on the screen was this really hot and topless UT college girl. I got banned from the computer for two weeks.

LOL, that says all anybody needs to know.

Seriously? A reference to circumcision generated controversy on Nifty? 90% of the stories on that site are nothing but crappy text porn.

Well, I don't read the stories a whole lot, just a couple. I participate a ton in the forums though, along with chat, and I write an occasional blog from time to time here. I found GA off a porn site and I lurked around in the shadows for about 5 months before I finally decided to join on the first day of my senior year of high school. Turns out to be one of the best decisions I ever made.

You & Me, by Lifehouse. Sorry that I beat you to it Fishwings.

Hey, those spray on abs looked sexy as hell in that movie, even on the older guys! But on a serious note, I think you say it best right here on all your points.

I don't consider myself 100% gay no, but I just can't see myself in a relationship with a woman. I want a son yes, but I don't have to be straight to get one. I could do artificial insemination with a surrogate, or if that fails I could adopt. The Unitarian Universalist Church is a very hippy liberal type of church, so I wouldn't compare them to the much more conservative, traditionalist Catholic Church. I doubt I will live to see the day the Roman Catholic Church starts marrying same-sex couples.