PrivateTim

Well I am certain PMS would be higher ranked if it had more chapters

No one would know who JJ is. You aren't a recognizable celebrity in figure skating until you go to the Olympics, even then, just going is enough to make you famous you need something that sets you apart or makes you a story. No one at a rave in 2005 or even a gay club would have recognized Johnny Weir. After 2006 sure, but then he worked at cultivating an image and persona. I have been with Olympians at public places the USOC and IOC would crap if they knew they were there maybe, but no one knows them, not even the ones I was with who were medalists so there were no embarrassing cell cam pics or videos. Michael Phelps is the exception, not the rule. Would you know Aaron Piersol if he was standing next to you? The 2009 MHS video was pretty cool, but in terms of fashion thoughts, remember it was shot in mid to late June so there were probably more t-shirts and less long sleeved shirts than there might be in January. It was weird watching the 42nd Street video and thinking that these were Will's peers, friends and contemporaries and then juxtaposing the idea that there is no Will really because you come to think of all of Mark's characters as actual people.

For Will, JJ and Darius, the 3rd Street Promenade (Santa Monica), the Commons at Calabasas, the Promenade or Topanga Plaza in Woodland Hills for mall hanging. Cove parties at night in the various coves north of Pepperdine where teens can drink away from where the sheriffs can get to them quickly. By the time a deputy can get down the hill to break up the party, all the party favors are well hidden and put away, everyone is just sent home. If JJ is a diva-ish as he is being portrayed he might have been into the cafe/club scene of rich kids that hung out in Beverly Hills. Being 16 wouldn't have stopped him from getting into clubs and this was when Paris Hilton and Kim Kardasian were just starting to emerge in the social scene in BH. Raves were also big in Los Angeles in the late 90's, early 2000's, even though they were starting to go mainstream with huge events like Nocturnal Wonderland, Electric Daisy Carnival and Monster Massive. Even if the kids were not directly involved, they would have had many friends who were and many friends who were into X or Special K. Recreational drugs are abundant among the idle rich kids although most of the people I know/knew who had other things in their life going on, sports, clubs, etc skated on the edges and experimented, but never got into it heavy. Also note that the story of Jesse James Hollywood was huge in Malibu in 2000. edited to say north "of" Pepperdine, not "or".

Actually it was in the third link and I think the researcher said the shoes would keep the buoyancy and we have never seen this amount of debris thrown into open ocean currents at one time before. I would think storms and swells, etc. would break them up, but Charles Ebbesmeyer seems to be the expert. I guess time will tell.

freakin' brown noser!

I don't think not shopping at PacSun means you wouldn't shop at A&F, Hollister or even Ralph Lauren. Tommy is saying a surfer kid in Malibu wouldn't shop at a phony surf shop and not all surfers/polo players dress alike. A lot of the surf/polo kids dress kind of preppy, but you also have your surf punks and surf grunge. Malibu High is laid back in its way, but it is still a high school that is status conscious. I am sure some people wear Dickies, but they aren't popular, more Levi's or khakis for long pants and knee length shorts of a variety of brands for shorts. Matrix, Rusty, Billabong, O'Neil, Hurley, Toe's On the Nose, Rip Curl and RVCA are the more common brands. Hansen's Surf Shop at Swami's in San Diego has one of the best online stores so you can get an idea what the plaid 'dress' shirts look like. The flannels are great for winter, especially at the beach on the foggy mornings. Also given the giant pictures of hot guys in A&F and all the gay boys who work there, I can't imagine a gay teen Will's age not shopping there.

I voted 14 in both cases and that is not because I think that is the right age for guys, but because specifically of who Will is, what he has done already, how he was raised and who he was raised with makes it inevitable I think in the near future. By the way, philosophically I don't have any set age that is right since everyone is so different and A Hero Ain't Nothin' But A Sandwich.

Well I WOULD say it..... but that was when I thought we were in 2001 already.... I can say I thought I was wrong once, but it turned out I was mistaken

This isn't the Soapbox. It isn't a debate. It is for people to share their story and feelings, you are way off base with this.

This may have gone unnoticed in one of my posts on Poor Man's Son, but the Internet should be capitalized.

The AOC questions were first about Stef and Gathan and there was nothing illegal there so a rival wouldn't have anything to work with. Then they were about Will and Gathan about what might happen in the future. Any one can say anything, but when it comes to an investigation there needs to be a complainant and no one would spill the beans and no one would cooperate. As to a therapist, I think Gathan is sharp enough to keep the full nature of his relationship with Will (after he turns 18) under wraps. His issues are pre-Will when he was a minor and those are the issues he has to deal with.

The dates reflect the fall start of school, not at the fall and spring so 2004 in the spreadsheet I ran was 2004-2005 school year. Excel just doesn't understand school years.

The title says it all. Just wow.

I don't care about JJ, he is a poo-poo head who can live anyplace. I don't know if Mark has made him unlovable by design or if it is just too hard to develop so many characters. Even though Darius has his unlovable qualities, he also has many redeeming ones and you sense his unlovable traits are more act than the core of his being. JJ's transformation to a Johnny Weir skating diva is very unattractive. He doesn't have the charm and class of an Evan Lysacek or the bubbly enthusiasm of an Adam Rippon.

I was thinking we were in 2001 already..... damn things are progressing slowly

The Euro lifestyle is in San Francisco of course, not L.A. L.A. was happy to be the "anti-city" post WWII. People didn't have to live in big buildings, everyone got a yard so they could barbeque, have a dog and 2.3 kids, everyone had their own car so they didn't need to rely on mass transit, which led to the demise of one of the largest mass transit systems in the world. My grandmother could take the trolley from Beverly Hills to Santa Monica, Downtown LA, Pasadena, even as far south as Newport Beach, but in the post war prosperity and with the heavy auto industry in the L.A. area, everyone wanted their own car and the Red Cars went away. It is a shame the city didn't buy the system them.

Ummm if he started Kindergarten at age 5 in 1992, he be turning 14 in 2001 and going into 9th grade and he'd be in the Class of '04 1992 5 K 1993 6 1st 1994 7 2nd 1995 8 3rd 1996 9 4th 1997 10 5th 1998 11 6th 1999 12 7th 2000 13 8th 2001 14 9th 2002 15 10th 2003 16 11th 2004 17 12th

Every one knows a promise and every one breaks promises, but that is a different issue from whether or not John understands he should apologize to Will. We are talking a 6th grader here and I think people expect far too much from him As to Age of Consent laws for sex, all 50 states set their own ages. The age of consent in most states is 16, 34 states have 16 as the AOC in part or entirely, only 11 have 18 in part or entirely. There are 6 with 17, 3 with 15 and 3 with 14 as the AOC. The age for voting in national elections is 18, which is also the age of majority. In theory each state also gets to set its own drinking age, but any state with a drinking age of under 21 would risk losing federal highway funds.

We got our first computer on the late 80's and I got online in 1990 or so using CompuServe to get onto bulletin boards, then Prodigy and of course onto AOL. My first speed was that 2400 bit Hayes modem with the screechy noise as you went through trying to get a handshake. You were charged by the minute, Prodigy charged 25 cents an email and since there weren't chat programs yet we used emails like IM's. Pops blew his stack at my first $400 Prodigy bill. Progressed through all the speed upgrades (4800, 9600, 28k) and I remember thinking when we hit 56k, how would I use all that speed? Now I am 500x faster than that and I bitch about how slow it is. I couldn't wait for the new issues of Boardwatch and 2600. Netscape was the coolest thing ever, it made browsing so much easier, but it cost like $25 dollars. The computer lab at school (high school) still used punch cards and you had to learn FORTRAN and COBOL even though BASIC was starting to dominate. Hard to believe we have come so far so fast.

Sorry at 12 you don't know dank about relationships. It isn't like breaking a lamp or shaving the cat.

d I see Stef as Mark's surrogate. I understand the need at his age to have the illusion that you can still can get wood and perform CA AOC is 18, but please.... there was so much sex happening in the days of Prodigy and AOL and the authorities didn't get wind of 99.999999999999999999% of it. It has only gotten more so that way in the world of Stickam and Cam4. The odds of being caught when you hook up with someone you don't know from online are remote. With someone you actually know it is even remoter and there would need to be someone to make a complaint. Who is going to complain to the authorities? I knew a guy that was 23 dating a junior in high school and the parents of the 'kid' knew the boyfriend, loved him and were thrilled their son was dating someone mature & responsible. Welcome to California. Ummmm, John is 12. What does a 12 year old know about commitments and how able is he to keep them especially when hit upon by a 14 year old. Does he even know he should apologize?

I got this text message from a friend: "if I like a guy whose really a girl and wants to keep her girl parts am I still gay?" I just didn't know what to say.

I really enjoyed the dual narration. Note to Mark and his editors, Internet should be capitalized. It is nice to see the technology finally coming into the stories. The Internet and WWW became such a huge part of youths lives in the late 90's and it has just grown exponentially. The ultimate status symbol in the mid 90's wasn't a BMer or Benz, but having a T1 line to your house.

Ok, a little seriousness from me and not flippancy Johns Hopkins is fine med school, I actually had friends go there, but a kid born and raised in Palo Alto in a Stanford household is generally dying to go there. Stanford (note I am spelling it correctly for my seriousness and not the traditional Cal spelling of Stanfurd) like Cal or USC is a very generational school. I have cousins who are 4th generation at USC and I was 3rd generation at Cal. Stanford is very similar, growing up with kids whose parents and grandparents had gone to Stanford, that was the only place they wanted to go. But I get someone wanting to going Ivy, especially for law school or to a school like Johns Hopkins for med school or U of Chicago for economics. Now to Florida. Florida beautiful? Say what? It is flat, humid and half swamp, there is little of beauty in FL compared to CA's rugged coast with cliffs and coves, redwood forests, Yosemite, Lake Tahoe, the Sierras in general and just the varied topography that is beautiful because of its variety. CA has the highest and lowest places in the 48 states. The highest place in FL is 485 ft above sea level. I am not saying I don't like FL or haven't had fun in many places there, but I haven't stopped at any physical feature in FL and gone "wow, that's amazing". Darius, having grown up in the Colony, would be exposed to Hollywood types all around him including one of his fathers. The Hollywood people in the colony are also more likely to be in the business end as opposed to the acting. Yes the Colony has its share of stars, but far more executives live there than actors. Like college, many kids, especially in Hollywood, follow their parents into "the industry." If Darius has never shown any interest in the film biz, he has shown even less interest in the law or business, he has been mostly a "hail fellow, well met" skirt chaser. Maybe 9-11 will shake him up and he will join NROTC and wind up with his 'uncle' in the navy. I don't see Darius as an enlisted type.

Dude, why the frick would Will leave California with the two finest schools of marine science in the country in CA (Scripps at UCSD and Wrigley at USC) not to mention the UCSB's and Cal State Monterey Bay programs. The surfing in FL sucks, a CA surfer would never go to school there. Once Gathan hits CA he ain't ever going back to OH. That is how it works. Midwesterner visits CA, never leaves. Damn Rose Bowl. The best medical school in the country is Stanfurd, why would John go to Baltimore other than for crab cakes? Darius isn't a beach person, he and Ella are going to live in the Hollywood Hills or Bel Air when Darius goes into the movie business. Brad is too driven to retire at that young of an age and as JP gets older, Brad will assume more leadership in the family.