Mikelaing74

Actually the entire English diving team is a wee bit on the yummy side !

Harcallard, the internet is a very fickle place. People don't have to be 'real' per se, they can be whom ever they want. It's why for shy individuals it's a life saver. But it can also breed ignorance as easily as any other part of society. My personal philosophy is that no body has the right to make me feel bad apart from me. If people don't want to talk to me, then it's their loss, not mine. I actually apply this philosophy to every part of my life. I dress like a tramp most of the time because it's comfortable, and I really don't have time for 'fashion'. So that's my advice, stuff em ! And I hope your feeling better after the accident, hopefully it wasn't too serious.

And Tom Daley is legal !

Normal service has been restored by England, penalties will always be their undoing

Something like that Chris

Chris, A number 4 means the length of the hair is 12mm.

Snuggle cuts mine, nice and easy number 4 all over.

Thanks KC, it's hard for me to watch him have to give things up for me, but I'm secure in his love for me. back.

I have no doubt of your gentleness Marky

Thanks Dave xx

Marky, you've hit it right on the head. Trying to solve the whole problem is impossible. So you break it down into manageable chunks. One of the best pieces of advice I got whilst in uni was 'you can't eat a whale in one bite, but over time with many you can.' This is your whale, just pick up on bite sized chunks, and eventually you'll digest the whole whale. Don't expect it to be quick or painless, because it won't be. But eventually you will get there, and we'll all be here as your cheering section.

Dependence I’m 37 years old, and today at least totally dependent on Darren. I had a bad night last night and waking up today it was a struggle for me to get out of bed and make it to the bathroom before I had an accident, it wouldn’t have been the first time, but it’s deeply shaming when it happens. The condition I suffer from is insidious, it’s there all the time and most of the time I can ignore it. But on days like today, it’s just too much. I made it to the sofa with Darren’s help. He t

A short about dependence.

Bill stupidity is just too good a thing for the straights to keep to themselves

Marky, it all comes down to what you want to get out of the therapy. I kept some things hidden because I don't want to deal with it with the therapist as she can't give me what I need to get over it. I'll need snuggle to do that for me. Start easy is my best advice on this one. Pick up on a few things and just see where it leads. I found it incredibly useful to have a 'trial' run with snuggle before seeing the therapist. So, try with Stuby. If you feel you can't with Stuby as he's too close then pick a stranger, someone not connected to you. To that end, if you need someone listen to you rant for an hour and remain quiet while you vent, let me know I'll send you my number. Keep you chin up Marky, and remember everyday you achieve something, even if it's just getting out of bed, or cuddling with Stuby. Every day you gain a victory. Keep smiling, and don't let your demons beat your better nature.

Marky babes, I've been bouncing between shrinks and meds for quite some time now. I finally have a GP who's willing to listen and work with me. She referred me for a course of CBT which much to my amazement has actually made a difference in my life. I'm more relaxed and more importantly happy with me for the first time in quite a while. But that only applies to me. As for you fear of people, I think it's quite justified. Surprisingly if you were to meet me in real life you'd find I'm actually quite shy and introverted. It takes a long time for me to warm up to someone and begin to trust them. That's where snuggle comes in, he's a people person, he handles the situations that I would normally run away from. Being on here helps me more than I ever thought, because it's one place that's mine, and it's helping me in real life to control my demon side. Writing is cathartic to me, it allows me to express some of the stuff that I've buried so far down in my psyche that I've nearly forgotten about it, maybe one day I'll lay it all on the table, but I think that day is so far away. Anyways enough of my rumblings, go cuddle with Stuby, he's the best medicine for you. Hugs Marky

Please, more savage moon, I'm going into withdrawal

It's currently 55 degrees and raining. So where's summer ?

This guy is one of my serious hero's

Bill going on past evidence, we're right.

This poor girl, constantly being accused of being that pansy Bieber !

It's not that I'm optimistic Stuby, but it's generally what happens.

You do realise that if England beat Italy, and Germany beat Greece, that's where England go out on penalties of course

My first experience of a video console was of a tennis game I think it was called Pong ! ( Really feeling my age now )

"god gave man a brain and a penis, but only enough blood to run one at a time." - Robin Williams