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I usually wear Pj bottoms.. sometimes I just wear a t-shirt and boxers

I agree with krista.. i love green and hazel eyes

I do appreciate everyones comments and support..if I haven't told you this ..then i am sorry.. I have figured out for me it is a day to day thing. Like comic said above, I have been on a merry go around lately and to be honest...I want to make it stop so i can get off..I have through several bouts of crying, bitching, and crying some more is that i am expecting things, people and situations to be something that they are not instead of accepting them for what they are. It will take me some time to work through it.... hugs and love

I agree with Mike.. Mark the two of you should be put together for two weeks on a deserted island..just he sun, beach, waves and no one to bother you.. hey that even sounds good to me..now if i could only find someone to go with...hmmmm.... As far as the internet..it is so unpredictable at times it makes me angry,,,,,, here is a hug to cheer ya up. hope everyone is doing fine,,,hugs and love

I am grateful that you are here to share with us Joann.. We are all here for each other to help us get through it.

It is disheartening to hear of stuff like this happening. Even though this doesn't happen often, this sort of thing still makes some writers, including myself, leery of posting anything on line..I hope that the situation is corrected soon.

I hope everyone is doing well today! IT has been rather boring form e today but eh.. I'll find something to do Hugs and Love

My pet peeves are (1) People who complain about their job(s). If you don't like what your doing...then do something else. (2) People who suffer from what I call the "Self-Importance" attitude...I mean really....someone told them long time ago they were special and it went straight to their head. (3) People who brag about their kids every minute of the day...NEWS FLASH....when it comes right down to it... no one really cares. (4) People who walk around oblivious to anyone or anything around them. (5) People who either forget their manners and never say excuse me, sorry or thank you

I totally agree with you VictoryPanda

I was extremely pleased with chapter 7. However, someone really needed to tell Nicholas to shut the hell up and do as he was told to do... UGH he was so annoying. I think your character development of Jacob and Matthew through out the chapters is brilliant... . They are not only coming to terms with themselves but as a couple as well and then there are their minions they have to keep an eye out for. Two weeks or so is not so long to wait for another captivating and not to mention intriguing chapter. I have noticed how the story has been improving with eahc chapter... I will wait patiently for the next intsall ment.. please keep up the good work. As the reader of this story, I have enjoyed every word. However, I am still a little perplexed as to where the mother ran off too? I mean one minute she was there and the next no one has seen her. Keep up the good work and I look forward to the next chapter(s).

i watched it once...

WHen I look for a partner, there has to be some attraction there.. some chemistry. However, I know of some gorgeous people, but because of their attitudes.. make them ugly. To be honest, the ones I find most attractive are the ones who do not know they are.. So I say it's 20 % looks and 80% what is inside.

I am pretty sure that you have all heard about what has been going on with the actual or fictional Nathan89.. I just need to get somethings off my chest.. I am really pissed off that I fell for what seem to be one of the biggest hoaxes I have ever heard of before. To play with someone's emotions like this in my book is the low of the lowest.. So I am not sad or upset for the loss of the non existent Person, but only for my gullibility. I hope you all have a a great day and may it bring you all the things you desire... Hugs and Love

you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers Wayne.. We love ya

Well how quickly things can happen and how quickly my good day can go wrong...It went miserably and utterly wrong in a matter of seconds. I went out to brunch with my usual groups of friends and we were having a good time. Then someone asked me why I hadn't atteneded another friends party last night and I responded because I wasn't made aware there was a party and I must have been left out of the loop. This is when it all fell down. Then the person for whom I would have never thought in a million years would have turned on me, did exactly that. I was told that no one wanted me around because I am clingy, nosey, pushy and the list went on. I began to feel more and more out of place as she went on. I could hear the others trying to get her to stop attacking me. It hurt me more that she would do what she did than what she said. I could have been so vindictive and slung back, but that is mot my style. So I excused myself, paid my bill and left. I just checked my cell phone and I already have three messages from her. I am a forgiving type of person. We can work things out and I will forgive anyone. However, when it comes to you actually hurting my feelings, I tend to take longer to forgive and forget. I think I handled it pretty well since I did not reply back to her. The old me would of in a heart beat. Life is too short for this childish things. I may have some character flaws, but I am who I am.. I am beginning to feel better.. I just needed to write it down and tell someone. Hey who knew my therapist was right so long ago when he told me to write things out. Hope everyone is having a good day.. mine is returning to that. Hugs and love.

Mark: well I agree with ComicFan.. its okay to be down, but we have to pull our selves up.. Cry if you have to and no, it doesn't make you any less of a man. Heck, I have done my share of crying. We all get down mate...but we cant let ourselves stay down to long:) (2) To me, it is whats in a person's heart that defines them.. not what comes from a book. You have a kind, loving and caring spirit about you Mark. Don't you ever lose that aspect. We are all here for ya. If I could be there I would give you the biggest hug you ever had, but this will have to do. Cassie: Hey you cant get in there with MARk.. if you do there wont be any room for all the sexy people:) I know and realize its hard to talk about things, but we are here for you:) keep your chin up. People cant see how beautiful you really are if your walking around with your head down. I hope everyone has a great day. If it cant be great then at least try and have a good day. Hugs and Love to all.

Thank you so much ComicFan for your words of encouragement to me.. I did indeed have a great birthday.. I hope that your doing well.. take care,, hugsand love...

I am having a very good day and this is a positive thing for me. Mark..I am glad to see you as well mate. Hope all is well with you and yours. Yettie One.. I agree with you totally. We are all different and this difference is what attracts us to each other and we don't naturally have to agree with them, just accept them for what they are an intricate part of each of us. CassieQ.....I want to give you a pit full of hugs.. then I will leave and fill it with hot sexy people just for you:P Bumblebee... I think that saying a prayer means different things to different people.. some take it from the religious aspect, some from the spiritual ,and to some its a metaphysicial one. You mentioned why dont we tell the person, and in an about way I like to think we are by, Like Yettie stated, by channeling our positive thoughts, feelings, and energies to the person. I hope you all have a great day..... hugs to all...

It all boils down to what you believe and what you don't believe. Some believe in a higher being and some do not.

I am sad to hear of the passing of Nathan89. He was a good guy who was full or life and potential. This event as well as being in the accident I was recently in, it has made me begin to look at each day and everything it can offer because you never know when it might be your last. I hope Nathan is finally at peace. Well today is the last day I will be 43..I will be turning 44 tomorrow.. YEA for me.. I am excited to be the age that I am at now. I mean there is nothing I can do about it so I might as well enjoy it. I was a but sad and depressed today thinking how pitiful it is that I have to plan my own birthday party. My BF cant do it because he is in the closet, and well my other friends I don't htink they even gave a thought about it.. yeah I know what your thinking its pretty sad and pathetic...So I took it upon my self not to wait for anyone to do it, so I have ordered my cake, and all the trimmings.. So it will be a happy day regardless. I went back to my dr.'s today to check my broken ribs which seem to be really hurting me at the moment.. he told me they seem to be healing right on track and to expect days of pain. Thank you all so much for the advice you gave me on writing the e-mail to my friend..He did reply that he was indeed busy most of the time and did not know I felt the way I did.. so we are working out a way we can both chat and do what we have to do:) I hope you all have a great day as for me I need to go lay down for a bit and take a pill.. Hugs

Thanks Mark.. I do understand that people need their own time.. heaven knows I do... yes I did get a reply back and basically it wasn't quite the answer I was expecting. I was told that I am over bearing and that no one got his full attention. oh what else was there oh yes that I was too clingy. I then sat and read through the conversation log and I noticed one thing that stood out and that was he was really superficial and the conversations were always one sided it seemed. However, my Bf, pointed that out to em a few days ago and I chose not to believe him. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. I am fine with it now and I am now taking it for what it is. I hope you all have a great and safe 4th of July. Hugs.

Zolia Lily.. thank you so much.. I will send him an email.. I guess I tend to be a very strong extrovert and maybe that may scare some people away. I think part of my problem is that I am not a multitasker...I mean everyone I know who is on line is typing on the computer, talking on the phone and doing something else. my bf says I tend to blow things out of porprtion....maybe I do? Thaks for listening. HUgs

HI guys.. well today was going well until I Tried to talk to a friend, or at least I think he is a friend, but anyway and every time we seem to be on at the same time he doesn't really chat that much, and very rarely when his significant other is on..maybe I am jumping to conclusions, but I get the impression he doesn't really want to talk to me.. his excuse is he is always working and this or that, is the reason he cant chat but them I find out form other people ha he has been talking to them for periods of time at the same time I try to get him to chat...I am to the point I don't give a care anymore.. but the sad and expressing thing about it all is that I still do. Maybe I need to get a life and get off of this damn computer, or maybe i Need to stop think ing things aren't what they really are. I mean maybe he is busy and can only get on when he can. I hope everyone's day was a good one. Hugs to all

Today is the 1st of july and the start of a new month. I can honestly say that I am much happier now thanI have been in a long time. I finally let go of someone who I thought was my friend. As it turns out, they really weren't. Yes it did hurt but for me it is much more of a relief to get rid of all the negative energy. I want to personally thank all of you for being here to listen to me, you will never know how much that has helped me:) My birthday is in 5 days and I am bound and determined to stay in a good mood. Have a great day one and all.. Love and hugs