I do know that, for one, the UK has a slightly different lawyer culture than the US, and for another, cases involving minors tend to be a bit less formal and more regulated (no wigs and robes, closed court) so I just sort of assumed that the lawyers would also be less antagonistic.
I've always believed that there's no such thing as black and white. Behind every seemingly horrible human being is a fucked up person doing their best, and behind every apparent saint is a closet full of skeletons. There are exceptions, of course, but generally speaking we're all just human, in the end. The road to hell, good intentions and all that. The next Hubris story I'll be posting will be Craig's.
Thanks for such a long and thoughtful review, and for your kind words. Always appreciated.