It wouldn't be a CJ story if there wasn't at least one trip involved. I may have gone a bit overboard with how many I have them take.
As for the parenting skills, most of it is based on what close friends and siblings have done. Sometimes I describe our men doing the exact opposite! Once he moved to Washington, CJ was given a lot of freedom to do things, and I want him to replicate what his fathers did. But he'll still be the disciplinarian, maybe drawing on the stricter approach to child rearing he and his brother experience as youngsters. The permissive approach may not work for everyone but after all, this is CJWORLD where the women are strong, the men are good-looking, and the children are above average.