All I know is whenever I am confused by what someone posts, I think of the person posting and how they wouldn't try to hurt anyone (we are all good, decent people), and then I'm all good. Things get misconstrued all the time, here and elsewhere, but we are friends, right? No one is ever deliberately mean, but humor takes twists and turns when we are caught up in it. I believe our biggest goal is to make others laugh, and to me that's a terrific thing. Love you all... and you're all crazy AF.