I thought I would join in the discussion. I'm not an "active" poster, but I do comment once in a while. I read the forums, and I've enjoyed reading several of the authors on this site.
I joined in the Spring of this year, and I can honestly say this site is not the same. A number of people would say that's natural because of how a community like this works, but I have to admit I'm disappointed at the loss of some articulate people who made the forums more enjoyable.
I recognize how much work Myr has done - and there is no doubt it is a thankless job. I applaud Myr for trying to maintain an atmosphere of tolerance and creativity. There have definitely been trouble-makers - so much so that Chat had to be shut down. It's a shame really, because that was the way many people interacted on GA.
I have donated to this site, and I have talked to Myr and other administrators as well, so I'm not a "lurker". I am saddened, though, by how things have turned out. There have been battles between certain administrators and members that has caused other people to leave.
At the end of the day, it is Myr's decision as to whether GA stays open for business. I would certainly like to see it continue, but with the understanding that people take a step back and breath and treat each other with simple kindness. I too was not overly excited about the "drama queen" statement, but I'm also not sure Myr is that far off in his comment. I've seen some pretty stupid drama played out here.
I've also seen people misinterpet things and take statements the wrong way. It goes without saying that you have to just let stuff slide off your back if you're going to participate in an environment like this one.
So, let me end by saying GA is a worthwhile endeavor. I hope it can stay open. But changes have to be made. Members, Moderators, and Administrators all have to work together to make this place worthwhile.
If not, then Myr will understandably close the doors.
I will sit tight and hope for the best.
Centaur