Kevin reminds me of an old neighbour of ours, who also had issues with committing to marrying his girlfriend even though they had been engaged for a long time, Ben felt that because both his mother and sister’s marriage broke down that his would too eventually. The strange thing was that both him and his girlfriend lived together for 9 years they broke up and he moved out, but as they are both athletes and members of the same athletic group they saw each other from time to time at events, they got back together for about 18 months but have now split permanently, and have moved on with their own lives, both of them have bought their own home, have a new partner but still see the other at some events although she is a semi professional athlete competing in various marathons and triathlons, her new guy is a bit of a drip, it’s more of a sexual relationship than anything else as he has said that he doesn’t see them settling down with a family. Personally I think that she should find herself a new man that wants everything that she does as she keeps saying that her biological clock is ticking.
we have not met Ben’s new girlfriend but we are told that she is higher maintenance than the previous one was and she can be domineering, which is not good. 😒