Myk

Just because....

As always,

It's quite possible that dating you is the first gay thing he has ever done. It's possible he just needs to take things one step at a time and it could develop into something. On the other hand he has been open and honest and given his situation may have just saved you from being lead on as he tries to figure things out. Hard to say because you don't even know him yet. you said friends are good, so stick with that and just see what happens.

I've known Vic since I joined over six years ago. Like many here I met him in chat, where he was a constant fixture. He was always friendly, full of humour and helpful. As fate would have it I became very close to others on the site and in some way I can't help but feel the worse for that missed opportunity. I was sad to hear the news of what happened months ago. His ultimate passing must have been freeing for a spirit too strong trapped in a body that couldn't keep up. My thoughts are with his family, which seems to be a great many of the people here. The word "friend" doesn't do justice to the relationships you've made. It was an honour to know you Vic, thank you for sharing your life with us. Greg

I do not like this, I *love this* totally goes in the win column

In general I find we are our own biggest obstacle in life. So if we are able to change our outlooks, we can adapt ourselves to any situation and be our own biggest supporter. Sounds like you are very self aware and thus quite well adjusted. Almost makes me wonder if this was just thought provoking or if there is in theory an intended audience....someone who needs a mental hand up? In life I believe we can always be ourselves, and there is always a supportive niche out there for us, if you're willing to find it.

Forgive my "enthusiastic" as you say opinion. I shall refrain in the future. I'm not an aerospace engineer and definitely don't work for mars one. Any good scientist can go look at their info, see their conferences on youtube and check out their suppliers. Try can then form their own opinion. what you want I could probably do, but I'm not here to write a thesis.

Last time I was there I went to the beach in Coronado. There were fighter planes flying overhead heading to the landing strip nearby. Was kinda cool....

Lol! They aren't gonna respond here, correct! I brought it up to make you guys aware of a plan in progress, and that I think it can work. By that get people to mars alive. If you're interested, the onus is on you to look into it. They haven't revealed their entire plan since they literally just started recently. the basics? They will launch 4 people every 2 years. First landing 2023. Main lander based around a customized dragon capsule. They will have a radiation shield in the capsule. Our body also has dna fixing enzymes. Travel time 7-8 months for optimal launches every 2 years. Water can be claimed from the soil above a certain latitude. That and recycling. Oxygen can be produced from the water. Food will be likely crappy freeze dried till they can plant hydroponics there. It does last a long time. etc....like I said, if it interests you, Internet is waiting

Uh, the onus is on them. It's very obvious to see how this is possible. Their partner companies are very capable of putting people there. How long they live is something to see if they do go. i think you all underestimate the amount of radiation you're exposed to every day. long story short its a funding thing if they go at all....

Ps I, totally not saying it's a good idea to go now, but I think it's an eventuality. I also think it's very doable now if you can accept the limitations. again, Venus is a crap option.....

The only part of your argument I will accept is the unknowns. The rest has no foundation. as for the criticisms you found, I'm not even gonna bother reading them because all you have done is collect up criticisms from people that may or may not know anything. If you want to launch a plausibility discussion with your own thoughts, or scientific references, I'll be happy to take a quick look. plenty of huge things in history seemed unlikely....until we did them.

Well idk what bas's qualifications are, but their plan can work. They have set 6 billion as the required funds, relatively cheap by space standards and it's all based on technology available now, with plenty of margins. Their funding scheme is a bit risky, but in 2 days they had 33000 volunteers, all paying an application fee. Their intent to broadcast selection and what not could very well work. If they actually get the money, biggest if, it could easily work. they aren't coming back...they don't need the muscle and bone density to survive 1g. Not sure what you're talking about.....

This wasnt directed at me, was it? Cause I'm not talking about him, don't even know him. I'd be happy to discuss it if you're keen on it tho.... also you can live in mars indefinitely with environmental support (suits and habitats). Your body adjusts to the gravity of mars. You would only be a "cripple" if you tried to return to a higher gravity world.

Whereas I don't disagree we need to focus on earth, I believe it is very plausible to colonize mars. This does not mean terraforming. Venus is not hospitable, so even though it's gravity is closer....who cares? Mars gravity is sufficient, we just would have a very hard time coming back. Mars one isn't planning to come back tho. They are making a permanent colony. In part because its cheaper, easier, safer to not plan a return. Radiation is a concern. This is because mars does not have the same em field like we have from our iron core. Suits and crafts provide some protection. At times of increased solar activity there are radiation shelters. Also apparently piling dirt on top of the living units can be equivalent to earths protection. Make no mistake, it would be a restricted life, but it's possible.

Ooooo, thx for the update myr

Somehow that's what I expected. Thanks!

Mars one, planned permanent colony starting 2023. Look it up, they are asking for volunteers now for a one way ticket. 8 years to train them to go.

Your reasoning makes sense CIA, even though some of us try our hardest not to disturb you more than we already do. When an author replies to reviews they also only get one shot at it, can that be changed? I've found myself correcting an annoying autocorrect issue in a reply to a different review. Not the classiest on my part, but it partially satisfied my OCD.

Wow, you have had a busy life recently! I hope things improve quickly with your mom! Since she is having memory issues I'd question if it was only a TIA as their hallmark is a quick return to normal functioning. That's kinda semantics tho. My grandmother has some dementia these days so to some degree I can understand. your business sounds super exciting, definitely not something we all get to experience. It's good that is busy, means you must be doing something right! GA is a pretty special place. There are times it is everything to some of us and it's constant existence is often reassuring. Don't let CIA boss you around too much! Hahaha *runs away* myk

Heh, was just reading your blog actually! First off thanks for leaving a review! Yea, this is not my favourite way to end a story. Many a person has been upset with me after reading it. I'd replace it if I had anything else to put up! Hope it wasn't too devastating, as the flip side is this love they shared. Is the kind of love that would be your first. Firsts invariably always hurt. Thanks again!

Lol, thank you! I appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment.

Oh nooooooo!! I'm so sorry! That was totally the intent of this piece, hence the warning. In general I prefer something a bit happier tho. Thanks for reading and especially leaving a comment! *hands you a box of tissues*

Thanks for the review Joann! I agree with your thoughts, it's sad it's a fact of life but the more it's publicized, the less it will be tolerated. At least I think so. If you're trying to avoid sad stories, I definitely don't recommend my other short, "without you". Thanks again for reading and reviewing! (Ps I meant reposting not reporting in my last review reply)