But my sister tells me these things anyway so I hear them all the time. I use to watch tv but when I heard that a country where one of my stepsons lived had a bad earthquake years ago and I thought he had died along with his wife and daughter, then I stopped watching tv cause it devastated me. Then I found out he was in the States and living on the other side where I am. He had divorced his wife. I don't want to be devastated ever again like that happened when I could never get a hold of him.