......I find it interesting that a gay man has to be upfront on his sexuality to new people. You certainly wouldn't, as a gay person question the same person about his straight sexuality on the onset would you? So you take the leap and pronounce your identity because 'what' you want to be brave and upfront or cutting your loss's right at the beginning? "Hi my name is Jay, and I'm gay' 'Nice to meet you Jay, My name is Steve and I'm a serial killer, but I prefer blond female prostitutes' :wacko: