Sometimes I catch myself being a pessimist. Pessimism is not a bad thing at all. Sure a pessimistic person such as myself expects the worst possible outcome of situations, but subconsciously I'm taking steps to avoid the worst. At least when something goes wrong I'm not upset about it, it was expected. Right? On the other hand though, if a situation turns out good in the end I'm left with a wonderful surprised feeling. More people should look into this and understand the outcome of it. I was brought up by parents who imbued me with the message, "Chicken little, and the sky is falling". As such, I always imagined worst-case scenarios, and then was pleased when the world did not fall in on me.
As I matured, I found though, that this way of thinking is counterproductive, wastes time and emotional energy, and serves no useful purpose. I have done a 180, and now see the glass as "half full", instead of "half empty" as before. I must admit though, that if I don't catch myself, I STILL have a slight tendency to expect the worst!
What are your thoughts; do you believe pessimism could be just another way of positive thinking? Your opinions are greatfully appreciated.