Robert did a stupid mistake as a teenager. He admitted his mistake, even tried to apologize. I believe he really failed as big brother. With better communication this gay issue might be overcome or maybe not, but there is possibility. After parents died, he escaped, pursuing carrier. To be clear - not. one. call. in. six. years!!! No mail, no pictures, no communication, nothing - silence! And now, he is lamenting on the grave of young brother he was supposed to protect. This is not the classical situation - life went on...people separated, no, Jamie was abandoned. That's why Robert is feeling like shit! Sorry, but that's the word, he has guilty conscience. On the other hand, Jamie could not make first move. He was gay, he had fiancé, and, as long as he knew, his brother was homophobe. It was easier to live with memory of successful, hero big brother who is too busy to call than homophobic brother who disowned him. We don't know Jamie, he is dead, but he is the hero of this story!