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I saw this and my mind right away went to "nuh uh!", but then I watched the video and saw that he has a uterus and then I was like, "oh, okay...no big deal." lol

That's really awesome Krista! Good for you! I have a somewhat kinda but not really story like that! Back when we lived at our old house, a double wide mobile home, for the summer of 2003 or 2004, I was like a Doctor Dolittle...animals just seemed to find me. I found a couple kittens underneath our house and took care of them for a while and then took them to the humane society to be adopted. Then, a month or so later, I was sitting in the living room one morning playing the playstation and I hear a meowing...hmm...I put it on pause and still hear it. I follow the sound over to our furnace...I take off the crate-metal thing where you put the filter in and I can hear the meowing better...I stick my hand down to feel for them and I find two baby kittens in the furnace! I go outside and take the siding off of our house and investigate further, and find two more kittens, and sadly, their mother laying there dead. We dispose of the mother cat and took care of them for a couple weeks, one we gave to my moms friend, one to these people who saw a sign at the library I had posted, and one to my mom's other friend. My favorite one sadly didn't make it but I felt good that I got the other ones good homes. Someday when I'm rich and have a huge house, I'm going to do that as well, cept I'll prolly do it with puppies and dogs, because I'm a dog lover. I like cats, but I'm just a dog guy.

Happy Friendship Day Everyone!! 's

Party at Joey's!!! That would be fun though. And to add to the little vision we have floating around here....we could all wear two name-tags...one on the right side of our shirt that said (for example), "Hi, I'm Xander" and then on the left side, another that said, "But in reality, I'm Ronnie." Hey, we would need an identification system I mean I know what a few of you guys look like, but otherwise it would be kinda annoying having to say your name a million times , right?? Yeah.

lol, that was pretty funny .

Yeah, it must be an old article....IMDB says it came out in 2005.

lol, cute. Can't really say anything as for experience because I don't think there's a gay bar withing 300-400 miles from here , lol. Ronnie

You know it's funny you should mention that Viv, because I found a political comic on that that I've been meaning to share on here. And when you read that, like you said, you realize that it's the same damn thing! I never realized that before I saw the comic that the same thing happened with interracial marriage. Kinda goes to show that history does repeat itself....every couple decades, the right wingers need to find something to protect the "sanctity of marriage" from. Before the interracial marriage, (I think this still exists a little) it was like one person was protestant and the other was catholic or something like that, lol. It's sad, isn't it? And as for the goats....I say we avoid that entirely (even if it is a joke ) ....that's what they like to bring up as a defense as it is...."What's next, people marrying goats?" As my favorite lesbian, Ellen Degeneres, once said...."I don't want to marry a goat...I really don't." Ronnie

Val!! Long time, no talk! Hope you had an awesome birthday!! Ronnie

Okay, I know the whole thing that everyone dreams every night, it's just that you don't always remember your dreams. But, I hate having to put that disclaimer everytime I want to say, "I dreamed last night," or "I had a dream last night," so for now on, if I say one of those two, everyone know that I know that already... Kay. Recently, I've felt really inspired to come out to some of my close friends. And that means like almost everyone in drama. However, a few of my brother's aquaitences are in drama. I say aquaitences because he kind of disowns them as friends if they are in drama. Anyway, like Jacob and Danie, the two openly gay guys who graduated this year, I'd like to become pretty much openly gay...I know it's a big step for someone who is only out to another gay guy, but I feel comfortable with myself and really don't care if other people don't accept it. I'm going to be a big advocate for gay rights someday because I get so riled up everytime I see discrimination or hear about it. And my feelings are kind of hard to explain....I've become more comfortable with myself...I'm not like I used to be, where I thought people were going to point and laugh and make fun of me for every little thing. I think it was being able to see how much some of my close friends cared and got, to be frank, pissed off on the Day of Silence when people mistreated them and everyone who wore a t-shirt, learning how it was to grow up as a gay teen, having to deal with that discrimination and mental and verbal abuse on a daily basis. It was really comforting, seeing my friends get outraged and wanting to get out there to make a difference. Hah...I got sidetracked. So if I were to come out to my drama friends...word would get around...to my brothers aquaitences....and eventually he would be told that I was gay...and would eventually tell my mom and dad. Another thing is that he might go around and tell everyone. But then again he might not....would he really want to be known as the guy with the gay brother? Prolly not...it would endanger his "reputation." So on to my dream...."I had a dream last night..." And it was kinda cool, yet kind of upsetting. I was like on a trip or tour or something with various people from school, some I knew, some I didn't. But there were couples holding hands wherever we went, and apparently I had a boyfriend . And we didn't care what others thought, so we held hands too. But one of the big debaters that I knew in like 5th grade was on the trip. My brother is also a big debater. The guy like came up to me and was like, "You're gay?" with an eyebrow up and stuff, and I kind of scoffed him away and yeah. And there was like another gay couple but I couldn't identify them. But I remember almost everyone not caring...like no one was staring at us or anything...the only real upsetting part was knowing that someone who knew my brother knew I was gay. And you know what the worst part of the dream was!?? I don't know who my boyfriend was! I don't remember one physical feature about him! All I remember was that we felt comfortable enough to hold hands. Stupid unconsciousness . I better remember who it is the next time I have a boyfriend in my dreams. So anyone a dream analyst? Know the symbolism in that? I thought my little precursor was necessary because I've felt that way before I had this dream. Please reply!!!! lol Ronnie

lol, that was soooo awesome! And I didn't really see the end coming either until the Great Princess Viv whispered in the ear of Great Prince Rich, then I knew what was coming right away, hehe. The first gay-dragon-civil-union.... Love it! Ronnie

Happy 29th Birthday!

lol, I love this! Some of my favorites like #28 are: 1. Not the sharpest knife in the drawer. 2. Not the brightest crayon in the box. 3. Few fries short of a Happy Meal. 4. One twist short of a slinky. 5. A few cards short of a full deck. 6. About as sharp as a marble. 7. A few threads short of a sweater. 8. A few clowns short of a circus. 9. A few Brady's short of a Bunch. Then a few other funny ones I've heard... 1. The light's on but no one's home. 2. He fell out of the stupid tree and hit every branch on the way down. 3. A few shades BEYOND blonde. 4. The cheese slid off the cracker. 5. The result of too much chlorine in the gene pool. Then for the computer nerds such as myself... - The hard drive is spinning but the OS hasn't been installed yet. Nice topic! lol

Happy Sweet Sixteen James! Have a great day! Ronnie

Super Happy Birthday to You James! Hope it's awesome!

Yeah, really! And Mario clear down at 16? What's up with that? lol

Ehh...kinda creepy, lol. But yeah, have fun and enjoy the show!

lol, I like this one...

Mine would be quite complicated, as I'm sure many of us I'm sure share. Characters: Myself My Mom My Dad My Brother My best friend Scottie My best friend Justin Lorena, the whore My best friend Jeremy My friends Sarah Other various friends and teachers Book 1 : Birth to 6th Grade, skipping over spans of time until the main character picks up some interesting traits, such as, err...talking? This book would pass most of the toddler years and pick up when I was about 5, when my best friend Scottie died. I chose to end this book at 6th grade when I met my best friend since Scottie, the infamous Justin. Thought I'd end it on a happy note . Book 2 : 6th Grade to the middle of 8th Grade. In this book, I would show our my and Justin's growing friendship throughout 7th grade and into 8th grade. Towards the middle/end of 8th grade would be when Lorena passed me the note to ask Justin if he would go out with her. That chapter would end on him looking up at her with a confused, somewhat disappointed look on his face. The book would end when I asked him what was going on with that girl and he replied, "I got it taken care of, don't worry." Book 3 : Middle 8th Grade to End of 10th Grade. This book would pick up by Lorena adding me to her MSN list and me finding out that they're actually going out. This book would deal with my great trials and tribulations with Justin, him dumping all of his friends for Lorena and my self discovery of being gay. Having had enough of Justin treating me like crap, I decide to try out for the school musical and meet a TON of friends in drama. The book ends with me happy once again. Book 4 : End of 10th Grade up unto the Present. This book opens up at the beginning of my 11th grade year. I now have tons of drama friends and have a new best friend, Jeremy. He gets me into Oral Interp and I am in the play once again. We and other friends hang out and do things all the time and it seems like the best time of my life. Around December of my Junior year I find out that Jeremy will be moving to Canada within a few short months. My life seems to shatter right before my eyes. I start feeling like everytime I get close to someone, they die, move away, or just change...my friend Scottie, my Grandma dying, various friends throughout grade school moving, Justin and Lorena...and now Jeremy as well. The months pass and it's February now. Jeremy's family starts packing and I come to a sad realization that it's actually happening when for the last two months I was in denial about the whole situation. We have a going away party for him where I present a huge, huge collage photo frame of many of the memories he's had here with us and my friend Sarah and I show a video in tribute to him, thanking him for being our friend. I'm getting too involved in the last one since it's so recent. I'll stop now . Conclusion? I hope to stay in contact with all of my friends that I've met in my life, up until the day I die, lol. I hope to find the perfect boyfriend with ease and have a lifelong relationship with him. I wish to be incredibly wealthy without it going to my head and becoming greedy. I want to live to be 100...my boyfriend/husband as well. Speaking of which, I want to live in the time (and hopefully when I am still quite young) where LGBT rights are a part of everyday life, where kids are taught to be who they are and who they want to be and not to discriminate against anyone, that we are all equals. With my husband, I want to adopt like 2-3 kids or have kids of my own with a surrogate mother, because I've always wanted to have kids of my own, reguardless of the fact that I'm gay. There's my hoping and dreaming! This was fun to reflect. Good idea, Kevin! My 300th Post!! .... Kinda sad for me actually because I've been here over two years

Happy 24th Anthony! Hope it's great!

Happy Birthday! Hope it's great!

Woot! We rock! lol

When I was little, I hated the site of needles and hated getting my blood drawn or getting shots and what have you (but then again, what kid does? ), but my sophomore year, I saw that the blood mobile was coming to my school, and I thought, what the hell, I'll get over my little fear of needles if it's to help save lives. Unfortunately, you have to be 17 to give blood, and I was only 16 at the time. So last year, the next time it came around, I was one of the first to sign up. It went smoothly and easily. I didn't faint, I felt completely fine, and actually felt a little better. Reguardless of that fact, the nurse lady who took my blood made me sit up one notch at a time on the cot since I was a first timer . But anyway, I've given three times now, and each time, they have you do the questionaire about various things that could make your blood, in sort, "tainted" and unsuited for them. Each time, this question always sticks out for some reason: "Since 1977 to the present, have you ever had sexual contact with another male, even once?". Guess it's because I'm gay, huh? But because I'm a virgin, I've always been able to answer "no" to the question and I go on and give my blood no problem. But when I'm in a relationship some day with "Mr. Right", and I answer "yes" to that question, am I going to be turned down, merely because I'm gay? I guess I've never really heard much about gays being banned from giving blood, so if it is actually so, I didn't know, and now am outraged about something else . If our blood supply is running so low, then why is homosexuality discriminated against? If it's because of the whole AIDS factor (I'm guessing that's where that date came from), that's a bullshit excuse because everyone's blood goes through all the right tests to make sure its free from Hepatitus, HIV, AIDS, Syphilus, etc. So if 10% of the population is gay, that's 30,113,994 people (courtesy of Google ) that are being turned down for being gay. Now granted I'm just jumping on a bunch of assumptions here, but they're ones that I fear to be true based on that question being asked during the process. So I guess my question is, how many of you donate blood or have been rejected because you are gay? If it is the case, that they reject all gay people, let them. One blood donation they say can save up to 3 lives, and one can donate up to 5 times a year. That's 15 lives that can be saved a year, by one person. Take that 15 by the supposed number of gay people in America, and you get 451,709,910 MORE lives that could be saved if gay people could donate....okay, someone please tell me that my assumption isn't true . Ronnie

Wow, theres lots of us turning 18! lol, Hope you had an awesome birthday dude!

Happy 18th Steven! Hope it's awesome! Ronnie