This thread sort of ties in with the, Coming out as bisexual, thread that's provoked some truly insightful discussion.
In that thread there's been some discussion about the benefits vs. risks of coming out en masse. That got me to thinking about the effect gay pride parades could have on straight observers.
The parades I've been to have left me feeling very embarrassed for our cause. Why? Because far too many of the people who participate seem to go out of their way to dress purely for shock value. Men wearing bikinis, really bad cross-dressers who should make any transgendered person angry as heck, obscenely small bathing suits like Speedos that have no place away from the pool or ocean, the list goes on and on.
If I were someone observing a parade like that I'd probably think all GLBT people were deviants who had no place in society. Even as a gay man I tend to feel that way.
Do these freak shows pride parades help or hinder our cause? I think they hinder it which is why I voted yes.
How about you?