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E.C.T.


 

ECT (electroconvulsive therapy)can be an effective albeit last resort treatment for suicidal ideation.  When my husband came to me to say he'd discussed this treatment option with his psychiatrist, I was at once afraid and sad. ECT had been discussed several years ago. It was left behind on the table in favour of other treatments. 

The other treatments which worked had slowly, over the years, become less effective. tim told me that the voices that urged him to take his life had become stronger. Fighting them was more difficult. As was proven about two years ago, when his suicide attempt was nearly successful.

More in-person talk therapy was given as were different combinations of drugs. tim tried but said recently these were no longer working well and he wanted to try ECT.  

After speaking with tim's trusted long time psychiatrist, we decided to try it. You can imagine where my thoughts led me: patients strapped to tables, awake when the treatment is administered. 

Thankfully, that is far from the reality. 

So far, tim has had three treatments.  So far, he's doing well and he thinks it might be helping.  I'm not sure that's true as I've been told it's a bit soon. 

But belief is a powerful thing. 

I live in hope. 

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Reader1810

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I truly hope these treatments do, indeed, help. Now and  in the future.

Best wishes to you, Dan, and especially, tim.

:hug: :hug: :hug:

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chris191070

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I hope these treatments help tim, now and moving forward.

Sending hugs to you, Dan and tim.

:hug::hug:

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kbois

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Having to watch someone you love battle suicidal ideation is such a difficult place to be. We both know that we can't "fix it" no matter how much we want to. 

If there's one thing my chats with tim has shown me, it's that he's worth fighting for. If it takes ECT treatments for him to get to a place where his voices cease to keep those suicidal thoughts from taking over then it's worth every emotion it puts you through.

Too many times people tell you not to be scared or sad or angry or whatever it is you're feeling. To hell with that... it's ok to feel what you feel. 

I'm happy tim's treatments seem to be helping. It's not a magic cure but a treatment that helps. He has a great doctor and with the support you and Dan give him I'm sure he'll find the right balance for his mental health. 

Hugs to all of you 🩷

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MichaelS36

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On 3/31/2025 at 11:21 PM, Reader1810 said:

I truly hope these treatments do, indeed, help. Now and  in the future.

Best wishes to you, Dan, and especially, tim.

:hug: :hug: :hug:

Thank you, Reader. tim has one more treatment on Monday. Then he'll spend additional time with his doctor during the week. He will evaluate and decide on next steps or follow-up treatments. What they call "maintenance" treatments are usually done once a week and finally reducing down to once a month along with talk, and meds. 

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MichaelS36

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On 4/1/2025 at 12:13 AM, chris191070 said:

I hope these treatments help tim, now and moving forward.

Sending hugs to you, Dan and tim.

:hug::hug:

Thank you, chris. I'll pass those along to tim.  

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MichaelS36

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On 4/1/2025 at 4:46 PM, lawfulneutralmage said:

All the best!

Thanks, my friend. I appreciate it. 

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MichaelS36

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4 hours ago, kbois said:

Having to watch someone you love battle suicidal ideation is such a difficult place to be. We both know that we can't "fix it" no matter how much we want to. 

If there's one thing my chats with tim has shown me, it's that he's worth fighting for. If it takes ECT treatments for him to get to a place where his voices cease to keep those suicidal thoughts from taking over then it's worth every emotion it puts you through.

Too many times people tell you not to be scared or sad or angry or whatever it is you're feeling. To hell with that... it's ok to feel what you feel. 

I'm happy tim's treatments seem to be helping. It's not a magic cure but a treatment that helps. He has a great doctor and with the support you and Dan give him I'm sure he'll find the right balance for his mental health. 

Hugs to all of you 🩷

I'm feeling a lot better now that we have a number of treatments under our belt, so to speak. It's the unknown that causes the most worry.  The doctors and nurses that give these treatments take very good care of tim. That's all I can ask for. 

Exactly, my feelings about this are of little importance. I think tim is feeling positive and he seems a bit less stressed about everything. 

We will continue to follow doctor's advice and hope tim continues to feel good about his life. 

Thank you, my friend. 

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