Haha Kevin, you've validated my arguments! You had to know that if you told me not to read it that I have to.

But you have nothing to worry about. You're a great guy and I know your perfect husband is right around the corner. It's just people like me who are going to end up senile and alone. And I'll come and visit you and impose on you and your guy to fill my lonely days.

You'll be fine.

"It's My Party And I'll Cry If I Want To" - Leslie Gore. I had the <gasp> album.

There's nothing wrong or whiny about the way you feel. I think everyone goes through a similar spot every now and then. My life is extremely full (husband, kids, house, job, family) but once in a while I really feel lonely and unhappy. I call it my 'blue mood'. I feel weepy and worn out and I just want to chuck everything and run as fast as I can in a different direction. It sort of hits me that 'this is it?'. I'd like to be your age again and start over. Chances are, I'd make the same choices, but every now and then, I'd like to think I'd do things differently. I sometimes wonder what's worse....being alone, or being half a couple and still being lonely.

Give it time, the mood will pass.

Sharon

Um, I don't know if you were aware, but you're only 22. You have more time than you could possibly know what to do with to find someone. Just be patient grasshopper.

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Haha Kevin, you've validated my arguments! You had to know that if you told me not to read it that I have to.

Grrr Matt! LOL I should learn to keep my mouth shut!

But you have nothing to worry about. You're a great guy and I know your perfect husband is right around the corner. It's just people like me who are going to end up senile and alone. And I'll come and visit you and impose on you and your guy to fill my lonely days.

You'd better! Who else is gonna help me find my way out of the park!

Just be sure to bring the boyfriend when ya come

have an awesome day, dude!

Kevin

"It's My Party And I'll Cry If I Want To" - Leslie Gore. I had the <gasp> album. [/quote

Yay!! 5,000,000 bounus points for Sharon!! You may redeem these bonus points for the imaginary prize of your choosing (and don't worry your imaginary prize is guaranteed to be in stock )

There's nothing wrong or whiny about the way you feel. I think everyone goes through a similar spot every now and then. My life is extremely full (husband, kids, house, job, family) but once in a while I really feel lonely and unhappy. I call it my 'blue mood'. I feel weepy and worn out and I just want to chuck everything and run as fast as I can in a different direction. It sort of hits me that 'this is it?'. I'd like to be your age again and start over. Chances are, I'd make the same choices, but every now and then, I'd like to think I'd do things differently. I sometimes wonder what's worse....being alone, or being half a couple and still being lonely.

 

Give it time, the mood will pass.

Thanks Sharon, I know you're right and that does pretty well describe how I feel. Most of the time I feel extremely pleased with my life. But sometimes I wonder what's missing. You're definitely right though, the mood does pass, and I don't think I would change much from my past.

 

Thanks for the encouraging words! Take care and have an awesome day!

 

Kevin

Um, I don't know if you were aware, but you're only 22. You have more time than you could possibly know what to do with to find someone.

 

aww thanks Luigi! I guess you're right. Sometimes it just seems like I'm wasting my time though. Thanks for the perspective though

Just be patient grasshopper.

I'll try for now

**Hops away**

Have an awesome day!

Kevin

Hey Kitty!

You've probably already figured this out, but don't wait until you've found your soulmate to do the things you want to do. Climbing, traveling, whatever ... either join groups that do those things, or go with friends.

Thanks, I definitely try to do that now, but I do admit sometimes I think, "well I'd like to go do X, but it'd be more fun if I waited until I could do it with "that special someone" **cheesey grin** , but yeah for the most part I try to pride myself on being the kind of person who goes after what he wants and doesn't miss out on things.

You never know when you'll be out, doing things that you enjoy, and you'll meet someone. Doesn't have to be a gay-specific group. Your mate could be someone's brother, or the cute waiter where you stop for lunch, or ... who knows.

I know you're definitely right there! I'll just have to try to keep that in mind.

The chances of you ending up alone are slim to none. Ain't gonna happen. You have a lot to offer, and them Texas boys are going to be beating the doors down to get to you. You get to choose.

oh wow thanks! That's so sweet of you say I only hope you're right

 

 

"It's My Party And I'll Cry If I Want To" - Leslie Gore. I had the <gasp> album.

Well, you beat me to it.

Kitty

hehehe don't worry I'll give you the second prize

**awards Kitty 2,500,000 bonus points**

and we should still have whatever you want in stock available at that cost (just imagine it's cheaper if necessary )

thanks and have an awesome day!

Kevin

**awards Kitty 2,500,000 bonus points**

and we should still have whatever you want in stock available at that cost (just imagine it's cheaper if necessary )

I want your soulmate's straight older brother. Is he in stock?

Kitty

edited to add: or I guess it could be his dad, if he's single.

Um, I don't know if you were aware, but you're only 22. You have more time than you could possibly know what to do with to find someone. Just be patient grasshopper.

 

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You're younger then him, do you even have the right to say that?

Then again, look at me be all 15 and such.

But seriously, you're not old until you're thirty, and even then look at Johnny Depp. (Why does he always end up being the scapegoat when someone wants to proove that 40+ people can be hot?)

Um, I don't know if you were aware, but you're only 22. You have more time than you could possibly know what to do with to find someone. Just be patient grasshopper.

 

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You're younger then him, do you even have the right to say that?

Then again, look at me being all 15 and such.

But seriously, you're not old until you're thirty, and even then look at Johnny Depp. (Why does he always end up being the scapegoat when someone wants to proove that 40+ people can be hot?)