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I need a hit, baby give me it.


rich_e

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So they are officially GONE. :2thumbs: They did end up waking me last night, but I didn't get up until like an hour later. Went into the kitchen, and he sent in one of the girls to try and butter me up. I was really nice to her, but I wasn't fooled. So he came to my room and we talked. I told him, they have to leave. He tried to switch it up on me, saying that he cleaned up after me a couple times too. Uh, no. I told him upfront that I cleaned up every single time. I have witnesses. lol. He said that he definitely cleaned some of my dishes, and I told him that's because his friends use my dishes.

 

Then he tried to bring up the fact that my friend Tammy slept here for a while too. I showed him the contract that says you may have ONE guest for a maximum of three days in a two week period stay here. She stayed here for only 3 days. Plus, she was incredibly considerate.

 

THEN he got the nerve to ask me for one last chance. I didn't give it to him. I told him that I had been more than lenient, and that if I back down now, i might as well let them just walk all over me. I gave him more than 4 chances, and if he didn't take any of those seriously, nothing was going to change. I told him that if I came home tomorrow and they were still living here, I would be calling the Housing Office right away. Yay! Conner was totally right, I was more mad at myself than them for not standing up for myself. I'm glad I finally did.

 

 

 

On another note...

 

 

I'm not sure I'm going to see Josh for the rest of the summer. :( Today I was hoping that he would work, so I wore my new favorite shirt, and was going to make myself tell him that he looked cute today (cause he always does) but he wasn't there. :( I checked the schedule (being he semistalker that I am haha) and he works TOMORROW. What is this madness?? I tried getting my manager to make me come in tomorrow, but they don't need more people. Bummer. Andddddd he's working monday, tuesday, and wednesday. After that, it says that he is "off" not "available" which means he requested the rest of the week off, which means he probably went on vacation.

 

So yeah, I'm not going to get to see him for a while. I have my final on Wednesday, so I can't afford to go shopping just to see him. Oh well, I guess some things just aren't meant to be. :,( I hope I can eventually become his friend, though. :)

 

 

 

New tangent...

 

 

 

You know those annoying people in retail stores who insist on telling you all about their amazing store credit card? The ones who force it down your throat in an attempt to get you to open one? Yeah, I'm kind of one of those people. Only thing is... I'm kind of good at it. My manager went up to this guy (who was actually quite adorable) and told him about the card. He was very against opening one up. He comes up to me, and I work my magic, and SOMEHOW convince him it's in his best interest to open one up. Poor guy, he looked like a defeated bunny when I was running his information. :( I actually felt bad, lol.

 

I mean, it's my job to open up credit cards. We're supposed to open up 1 each day... i tend to average 3/4 cards a day. But I always feel so guilty talking these people into opening it up! I guess it's because I would not open one up, yet I'm acting like if I was in their position, I would SO do it. (If you shop at Express at Fashion Island, disregard all this... open one up! It's great! ;) Only if I'm there though... so I can get the credit. :P haha)

 

 

 

Last one, I promise:

 

 

I have a question for you guys. How do you guys act when you're interested in someone else? Do you ever ask people out on dates, or are you the type to be asked out? If you do, how do you go about doing it? If not, what usually wins you over? I ask this because I was talking to my coworker about it, and we were complete opposites. The way I treat people I'm not interested in is the same way that she thinks someone acts when they ARE interested, and vice versa. But yeah, I'd be interested in knowing your stand on this. Drop me a line, I'd appreciate your response. :wizard:

 

 

Oh, and if you were wondering, the title really has nothing to do with any of this; I needed a title and Toxic started playing lol.

 

Wow, this entry is really a lot longer than it needed to be. :*)

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Hey Richie

 

Let me start by saying congrats on finally talking to your roomate and getting him out, people who walk on other's like that just get me very upset, and i'm so proud for you!! :worship:

 

As to your question i'm pretty werid when it comes to me checking someone out, or showing interest i tend to get really scared and aviod that person at all costs, then after that perosn isn't with me anyone i kick myself for being so dumb... So pretty much i'll never get asked out nor will i ask anyone out becuase i'm too scared haha!!

 

-LC

 

P.S. Sorry if i wasn't much help >< :P

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Hey Dude,

 

Way to go on getting rid of the roommates!! :D

 

As for Josh...Oh my gosh that sucks! You'd talked yourself into being proactive and darn if he wasn't there! It makes it so much harder to hit on people when they're not there! :wacko:

 

I really hope you DO get to see him again soon :)

I mean, it's my job to open up credit cards. We're supposed to open up 1 each day... i tend to average 3/4 cards a day. But I always feel so guilty talking these people into opening it up! I guess it's because I would not open one up, yet I'm acting like if I was in their position, I would SO do it. (If you shop at Express at Fashion Island, disregard all this... open one up! It's great! Only if I'm there though... so I can get the credit. haha)

LOL, my express card is like my favourite store credit card! I use it all the time! I definitely have no regrets about opening it. Actually I never really regret opening store cards as long as there no fee or anything. I just figure "yeah, sure, why not". I only say no if I'm in a rush or really don't intend to ever shop there again.

 

I have a question for you guys. How do you guys act when you're interested in someone else? Do you ever ask people out on dates, or are you the type to be asked out? If you do, how do you go about doing it? If not, what usually wins you over? I ask this because I was talking to my coworker about it, and we were complete opposites. The way I treat people I'm not interested in is the same way that she thinks someone acts when they ARE interested, and vice versa. But yeah, I'd be interested in knowing your stand on this. Drop me a line, I'd appreciate your response.

Hmmm, interesting question.

 

I think I'm pretty good about letting the guy know I'm interested in asking him out. I mean if I have the reasonable opportunity. Like I'd probably never just be somewhere, have a one time conversation with a guy, realize I'm interested and ask him out. That would possibly nice, and fun, but I doubt I'd do that. For one thing I'd be too concerned that I'd later find out something that would change my mind (I mean how much can you get to know about someone from a single encounter?). [err, wait, I just realized I have done that before...yeah, didn't work out that great.] But if it's like a friend of a friend, a co-worker, or otherwise someone I might see again, then yeah I'm pretty decent about it. I'll be nice and friendly, and if I get a positive response I'll like casually ask him if he wants to hang out or something.

 

Anyway have an awesome day and take care, Richie :)

Kevin

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Keep your pimp hand strong, my friend. ~nods~

 

 

How do I act when I'm interested in a boy....

 

I have no idea. Seriously, I really... um... I don't know. I've only been interested in a few boys, and it's always been disastrous and each time the approach was different. Generally, though, I would prefer if THEY come on to ME, so that I don't have to risk rejection. My ego is quite fragile, and one good slapdown takes ages to fix. :P

 

Have a good one. :D

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Hey Richie

 

Let me start by saying congrats on finally talking to your roomate and getting him out, people who walk on other's like that just get me very upset, and i'm so proud for you!! :worship:

 

As to your question i'm pretty werid when it comes to me checking someone out, or showing interest i tend to get really scared and aviod that person at all costs, then after that perosn isn't with me anyone i kick myself for being so dumb... So pretty much i'll never get asked out nor will i ask anyone out becuase i'm too scared haha!!

 

-LC

 

P.S. Sorry if i wasn't much help >< :P

 

Thanks! I appreciate it! :)

 

And no, you were helpful. I'm glad I'm not the only one. lol. I have it in my mind that buy appearing uninterested, the guy will know i actually am very interested. It makes sense in my head. lol

 

Hope you're doing well. :)

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Hey Dude,

 

Way to go on getting rid of the roommates!! :D

 

As for Josh...Oh my gosh that sucks! You'd talked yourself into being proactive and darn if he wasn't there! It makes it so much harder to hit on people when they're not there! :wacko:

 

I really hope you DO get to see him again soon :)

 

LOL, my express card is like my favourite store credit card! I use it all the time! I definitely have no regrets about opening it. Actually I never really regret opening store cards as long as there no fee or anything. I just figure "yeah, sure, why not". I only say no if I'm in a rush or really don't intend to ever shop there again.

Hmmm, interesting question.

 

I think I'm pretty good about letting the guy know I'm interested in asking him out. I mean if I have the reasonable opportunity. Like I'd probably never just be somewhere, have a one time conversation with a guy, realize I'm interested and ask him out. That would possibly nice, and fun, but I doubt I'd do that. For one thing I'd be too concerned that I'd later find out something that would change my mind (I mean how much can you get to know about someone from a single encounter?). [err, wait, I just realized I have done that before...yeah, didn't work out that great.] But if it's like a friend of a friend, a co-worker, or otherwise someone I might see again, then yeah I'm pretty decent about it. I'll be nice and friendly, and if I get a positive response I'll like casually ask him if he wants to hang out or something.

 

Anyway have an awesome day and take care, Richie :)

Kevin

 

Turns out I did get to see him again, but I think he took my reaction as a sign that it wasn't going to happen, because he acted completely different towards me. Tears of my soul.

 

I think that's a really productive way of handling an interest in someone. I think I'm going to try that out next time... so simple, "do you want to hang out sometime?" ;) Thanks for your input :)

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Keep your pimp hand strong, my friend. ~nods~

How do I act when I'm interested in a boy....

 

I have no idea. Seriously, I really... um... I don't know. I've only been interested in a few boys, and it's always been disastrous and each time the approach was different. Generally, though, I would prefer if THEY come on to ME, so that I don't have to risk rejection. My ego is quite fragile, and one good slapdown takes ages to fix. :P

 

Have a good one. :D

 

:lol:

 

I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah, I think I would like to come on to someone if I really think we'd be compatible, but I really doubt I could ever do it. I like to be in control, and that's clearly giving them the power in the whole situation. If they come on to me, I at least know that they're interested. I don't know how I could handle a rejection. Yikes.

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