Not just in this thread, but it seems like there are just more bottoms than tops in general out in the gay community. Something about being with a guy, masculinity and the whole idea of the balance of power or whatnot.
A big difference between being with a guy or a girl is just the feel of the other person. That girl I got with a few months back, she was really soft and gentle and even if she did have sort of this wild side, her femininity was very much there and a contrast to me. When I kissed her, I was very much leaning over her as opposed to her coming forward leaning over me. Guys can be gentle too but they're subtly more aggressive and it's their masculinity that entices me. it's why i've never been attracted to twinkish softie boys, I like guys who fit those traditional characteristics. So as much as I enjoy being a top, I recognize how much I'm attracted to guys who exhibit that same level of masculinity and sexual vigor and in return, I'm willing to let them do that with me cuz it's a thrill and that moment of submission can feel pretty nice. I like it when I'm on my back and being kissed. When a guy doesn't do that cuz of some hangup, it's kinda disappointing. But I'm not about to ever bottom for some wimp or a guy I don't respect. Random hot guy comes up and wants to fuck me...no. So I guess when I say I enjoy bottoming, I don't mean that as just saying oh I like it up the ass, that's not really the point (even if that's what ends up happening) it's about mutual respect between two people and sharing dominance and the thrill involved in that. If that same guy can acknowledge the same in me and is willing to switch it up and let me take over, shit that's what it's all about. If a guy just wants to bottom for me, that's fun too. So yeah, I'm a true versatile who has no defined role because it all depends on the other person.