Feel better ... a cup of hot tea with a bit of honey, lemon and a shot of bourbon should help unless of course it isn't a chill but something else that ails you.
I understand completely. I once had an opportunity to play with a willing 19 yearold. Thing was I'd known him since he was 11 when he joined the local Scout troop and he was a kid I'd mentored. Lovely as he was I just couldn't.
His mum's had the benefit of his labor long enough it's time to share, beside that she's not likely to appreciate his sweaty presence nearly as must as you would.
We're in the midst of a thunderstorm. It was warm, 70/21° and muggy when we woke up but the forecast is for a front to pass through and bring cooler than normal temps. Some areas could see lows drop into the 30's though no expectation of frost. That's particularly unusual for SC in mid-April. Sounds more like my home in PA.
I thought he wasn't allowed young studs visiting due to social distancing ... rolling in the hay while maintaining a six foot distance only makes you itchy.
Thanks Val. I guess this is part of having two aging that are 600+ miles apart. Last summer it was Mum while I was in PA now Dad while I'm in SC. Fortunately my son and d-i-l are nearby in PA if needed.