Hey Y_B
I do agree with you, about not taking it out on others. I guess that's where Stuby got Agaith from. He could hide behind the mask, and keep his depression to himself rather than showing any emotions.
He does it very well too. I can see through it, I instantly know when he tries. But the mask is slowly slipping and we all get to see, what I see.
I also think a lot of us have our own masks. Before when I needed to sulk or cry or just a need to do something other than lash back. Then I would run, as fast as I could to my den in the woods. I would stay there all night sometimes. It was and still is my sanctuary. I still need it now, but less and less for my mood and more just to think. Hugs to all