I think what Anthony says is very true, that unless you put yourself out there, make loads of friends no matter what sexual orientation they have, then you'll never meet anyone. I used to think like you (kind of) that there was nobody out there for me and that I would end up alone, but even though I'm still single, I have decided that I am not ending up like that. If I cannot have that romantic love, then at least I will have lots of friends that love me. So that is my goal now, and if by coincidence, I meet that special someone along the way, I'll be even luckier.