Well, if you say she isn't stupid and selfish, I shall have to concede that part. But I still don't like the way she acted, because of the consequences it had for Grant and Eliot. I'm glad they don't see her any more, and I hope it stays that way.
And I'm sorry if our discussion about abuse took the focus away from the main theme of the story, which to me was Eliot's bravery in refusing to give in to Grant's unreasonable demands, and his kindness and love in giving his boyfriend another chance.