I wasn't sure whether to do a or a like so I ended up with a neutral one. You made me laugh, but I was also a little sad to see you doubt your ability as a writer. Also, plenty of us have the foot-in-mouth problem, it's part of being human.
I like being around you, and I think you're a guy most of the time, with the option to show your feminine side, when you feel like it. Just be who you are, Thorn, there's plenty to love about you.
(suggestion for reading: The Beka Cooper books by Tamora Pierce, book 2 has this amazing queer character)