Thorn Wilde

That is kind of my point. I just meant that it should be up to you to define yourselves, not anyone else, you know? Screw the labels other people give you.

All relationships change. All people change. And that’s a good thing, I think. And also... isn’t it up to you to decide what D/s means to you? No two relationships are the same, after all. You talk about colouring outside the lines, but isn’t that what we do anyway? As queer people, you as D/s people... seems to me that it’s up to ourselves to define what our respective lifestyles are supposed to be and then live accordingly, with our self-defined labels or without. Either way, you do you. The only thing that matters is that you are both happy, together.

Ups and downs. Had to lower the dose for my mood stabilisers cause I was getting some unpleasant side effects, so trying to find a balance just now. Other than that it's all good, though. Hope your thesis is going well! It's way past my bedtime so I'm gonna get some sleep now. Night, all! ❤️

Hi, Hunter! Good to see you.

So heartbreaking to see the early signs of Tad’s illness. I feel for him and his boyfriends. That threesome scene, though... so fucking hot! Had to edit it twice, lol!

Have a great time! Give the floof lots of cuddles! ❤️

Yup, here comes the rain. Good, it's needed.

Good morning, everyone. Happy Sunday! I slept in today. More than usual, I mean. I've needed a lot of sleep lately... I would die. I cannot take heat. Cold is fine, I bundle up, but give me over 25°C and I melt. I always say, I'm a snowman, lol! That's about the temp we've had in the past couple of days. Plenty hot enough for me. Windows are wide open. One of my best friends has lived and worked in Dubai for a year. It would not have been her first choice except the career opportunity was too good. She's even less heat resistant than I am. They get 45°C in the shade in summer. Thankfully, there's AC everywhere. Rich city. She's had enough, though, she's coming home soon. We had a lovely thunderstorm the other day. It rained sideways, lots of hail. The neighbours' kid was on her way home when it happened. I heard her laughing downstairs coming inside, absolutely soaked. It was over in about an hour. Huh, I think I just heard thunder. Maybe we're getting another one.

Goodnight, DiC!

Sounds useful. We should have some of those... it’s been really hot here today.

Sounds like a great guy. I’m sorry you lost him. Going to the dentist is pretty pricy here, too, but not prohibitively so, I think, at least where I usually go. My dentist is a very sweet Indian lady.

Seems you’re having a productive day, in spite of the aches. Enjoy your reading!

Good morning, DiC, and happy Saturday! Hope you all have a good day.

Morning, everyone! So, update time. I heard back from my doctor last week, and she said all my blood tests came back clean. However, she told me she had just spoken to a patient who had almost the same symptoms as me and also takes the same mood stabilisers that I do. So we've lowered my dose from 400mg to 300mg, cause as it turns out, this whole thing started just around the time I went up to 400. So now we wait, I guess. I've been feeling a little better, but don't want to get my hopes up too soon. I really can't afford to have to quit these meds, they're the first and so far only thing that's worked the way it's supposed to, except for this one stupid side effect. I really don't have to want to choose between my body and my brain. Have a good day, everyone!

I identify more with Stanley in this chapter than I'd care to admit... So happy to see Kent taking charge and showing him how deeply he's loved. Tad is such a wonderful person, looking after both his guys even when he's the one hurting... Such a special guy.

Hi molly. I've been gaming. On my way to bed now. Hope you're well!

Evening, everyone. Hope you're all well.

Good morning, everyone! Hope you all have a great day. ❤️

Glad to hear it. Mine's been pretty good. Heading to bed now. Night, DiC!

Markus's internalised homophobia makes me so sad. And that idea that men can't love each other the way that men and women can is just so awful and harmful. Poor Markus. Poor Thomas, too.

Just got back from seeing Rocketman. It was really good, I thought. Hope you're all having a good day!

Sounds like a good time! I'm glad.

It was his first ever Pride parade. I'm really happy he wanted to come. He's been so kind and supportive. I'm off to bed now. Goodnight, DiC!

Thanks, Hunter! Hope you're well.

He did.