San Francisco suburb, extremely family-oriented. There are, I think, a couple/three lesbian-based families in the school district, who appear to be exactly as boring as the rest of us No bathhouses, sadly--that would really liven up the PTA. Oh well.
Edit: maybe it's a function of age, but I know a bunch of out gay people at work, and we're all in pretty much the same long-term monogamous situation, with or without kids and/or mortgages, or trying to get there. Clubs and bars, forget about it. We all want to get home early for some family-related reason.