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    D/s BDSM

    LitLover commented on JayT's blog entry in D/s BDSM

    Huh. Well that surprises me. Not in a judging way, but more in a "I never would have suspected you to be a sharer" kind of way. I think that has more to do with my impression of the roles of Doms and subs in a committed D/s relationship. I would have thought the dynamic would lend itself more to one Dom with two subs rather than the other way around. It's my impression (and granted this comes from talking to other people rather than personal experience) is that a Dom's job is to protect and cherish their sub and the gift of their trust and submission. The very nature of that submission seems to be giving up control over decisions and trusting their Dom with their safety. Does the nature of that dynamic mean not trusting another with the care of a sub, at least not without some heavy vetting (or presence) by the Dom to ensure their subs' safety? Please don't mistake me. It's not that I think subs don't have the ability or intelligence to make their own choices (the two I know personally are highly intelligent people), but rather they've willingly given up that right. Maybe I'm wrong? Or maybe I need more sleep?
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    D/s BDSM

    LitLover commented on JayT's blog entry in D/s BDSM

    Thank you, Molly. I appreciate you being so candid, and your response does give me an answer to my question
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    D/s BDSM

    LitLover commented on JayT's blog entry in D/s BDSM

    Thanks, you two. I appreciate the frankness. One last questions (maybe ),,, are subs allowed to interact with other Doms and show them the same level of respect they show their partner/Dom? One example, is deferring to another Dom (e.g. their opinion or direction) considered to be bad form?
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    D/s BDSM

    LitLover commented on JayT's blog entry in D/s BDSM

    Thank you for answering, Mike. I think the averting eyes thing is more for outside of their home. She doesn't make eye contact with any other men, unless he invites her to look up at them. She does look me, and others in our friend group, in the eye. I honestly don't know what they do behind closed doors as it never seemed appropriate to ask her (and I doubt she'd be that forthcoming.. she's pretty private).
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    D/s BDSM

    LitLover commented on JayT's blog entry in D/s BDSM

    I was going to ask this in one of the threads, but I guess it's better asked here: Does every sub call every Dom "Sir: and does every Dom call every sub "boy" (or the female equivalents thereof). I only know two couples who are in D/s relationships: one is more for bedroom play (there is no Ma'am or boy outside of the bedroom) and the other couple is more fully integrated, and my friend's Dom would s**t kittens ifs she even raised her eyes to another Dom without his permission. This is more of a curiosity question about personal preferences for the two Doms in the crowd ( @MichaelS36 and @MacGreg and any others out there).
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    Chapter 19

    LitLover posted new chapter in Choices

    Chapter 19 Liam waited nervously for Corey and Jason by the doors of the arena. Alek would likely have arrived earlier and would now be ensconced in the locker room with the rest of his team. Corey had agreed immediately to attend, and since Jason was a hockey fan, it didn’t take much convincing to get him to come to the men’s league game. Liam bit back a smile as he thought of his conversation with Bryce before leaving the apartment. Bryce tried to convince him to wear his
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    I'm On a New Drug

    LitLover commented on Mikiesboy's story chapter in I'm On a New Drug

    I hate that "hurry up and wait" thing, but sometimes it's all you can do. It sounds like you're on the right track and trying to keep a positive attitude
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    I think we'll need @Headstall's permission, but I'm all for my guys having met M&K
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    Chapter 7

    LitLover commented on LitLover's story chapter in Chapter 7

    I'm happy to see people are reading the story, no matter how long after posting has stopped, so thank you for reading. As for that hockey player? You never know.
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    Haha hmm I wonder. I'll have to see what the name of that mysterious hockey player was
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    Thank you, Blind It was my goal to show how a people can change over time, both their behaviours and their attitudes. It makes my author's soul happy that I was able to get that across to readers.
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    Thank you for your kind words, Cole. I'm thrilled you enjoyed the story and the character development.
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    Thank you, tim
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    thanks, Def! And yes, there is some talk of a book three that I've sworn I would consider
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    I do love conversations between Eric and Rob. The teasing, but loving relationship is wonderful to see. Rob's advice is good for anyone. With today's social media obsession it would be so easy to have pictures put out there you would never want anyone to see. Eric is a smart young man, but a reminder from an older sibling is a good thing
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    aww thank you, Drew
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    Thank you for your wonderful review, spikey. I'm honoured you enjoyed the story enough to do this.
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    Thank you, Reader And spirited discussion can be great fun.
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    lol I have to admit the is fun to watch.
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    Thank you, Gary I've told you this before, but I really never would have made it this far without your support and encouragement.
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    I look forward to hearing what you think, Val
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    In Silence

    LitLover commented on Mikiesboy's story chapter in In Silence

    I hope Mike read this. I think he would love it
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    Sympathy

    LitLover commented on Headstall's story chapter in Sympathy

    Only you could make me want to give a robin a hug and make it feel better after its loss
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    Poet

    LitLover commented on Headstall's story chapter in Poet

    I loved Poet. Words can be such a powerful tool: They can lift the spirit or bring it low. They can purge the hurt or help a person to redirect it. You do have a way with words, Gary
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