I have two friends who have just invited themselves to stay on my couch for who know how long. Today I had to drive them to RI and back and Marrisa said she would pay me.
Now on the night before New Years Eve they got kicked out of the place they were staying, another friend of ours who was being unreasonable. He was getting abused (more mentally than physicly) by his boyfriend and Marissa and Rick were staying there. The boyfriend got wound up and instead of throwing the boyfriend out, he threw M & R out.
They called me, ask if the could sleep over and I said sure, whatever. And on the day of New Years Eve it had snowed so Marrisa offered to drive me to the bank so I could cash my check to buy booze. She asked if they could borrow $20 cause they had no money, food & low on gas. I said sure. It was Ricks car and Rick wouldnt get up so by the time we made it to my bank it was closed. We drove around 4 places trying to find a place to cash my check. Couldnt. So I finailly called my bank account and found out that I had $53 in my account. We went to the liquor store and I bought my stuff and gave 20 to them so I only had $9 in my account.
I went to another friends house for New Years Eve.
Now last night was the second night I let them sleep over and today, before I drove them Marrisa needed to cash her check so I said I would do it at my bank. When I did, she gave me $10! I mentioned the $20 and she said it was payment for driving them around. EXCUSE ME! Ive been letting them sleep at my place, eat my food, kick me off my couch and my computer and I PAID them for driving me around?
Another thing, they usually ignore me for 2 months at at time untill they need something, like my couch. This is the 8 or 9th time theyve slept on my couch cause they couldnt go anywhere else.
And where are they right now? Partying with with another friend and was I invited? Nope? And when they are done, they are gunna kick me off my couch and my comp, like its thier right. Sometimes I HATE being nice.
Anyone else have friends who take advantage of them?