I'm actually not nervous about it. They know my heart and who I am at my core. I'm also very independent (financially, personally) so I don't rely on them for any real support (outside of the fact they are family, I love them, and I have their back). My sister knows so I already have support system in place. It might be tough for my mom (moreso than my dad) but I"m not overly concerned. They should be allowed to have their initial reaction without me getting mad...which I will allow. I just don't want to "plan it". It has to make sense in the moment. I'm also taking each member of my family on memorable trips this year...so that should help . In fact I think they've seen me in better harmony in the past year.
You're right there. At 25, It took me 1/2 a year to admit my feelings when I realized, 1/2 a year to change venues to figure stuff out, and now a whole year of actual gay friends / gay dating to get me where I am today. I have many people to thank for that and one guy in particular. But I'm not really afraid. I just want it to make sense.
(Phew that was long-winded on my part). Thank you for sharing your story.