My parents were divorced but my dad did always keep in contact with us,
he also visited us every month for a few hours as we had moved 80 miles away,
always made an effort to be there for our birthday and Xmas and always paid mum money for us etc, it was far from a good time but he was always on the end of a phone and he made an effort to stay in touch with both myself and my sister.
As we got older our relationship was at best cordial, he didn’t understand me being gay and thought that all I needed was a good woman, nope I needed a good 👨,
which I now have. So I can relate to Jordan and his situation very well.