I'm going to disagree with all you all. Kyan needs to work on, and fix Kyan first. He carried a lot of childhood baggage and issues with his parents right into his marriage with Dayna, and he never dealt with it because he never had to. He's been totally passive about his life. I understand that being responsible for that many kids is overwhelming, but he just keeps rolling along with the flow. It doesn't seem like he's made any real plans or goals for his future. Dayna's parents are so willing to look after the kids, why hasn't he had a discussion with them to watch the kids part time so maybe he could go back to school? It would be a lot, but there are plenty of single parents who do just that.
I'm 100% team Perry. He's longed for Kyan from the sidelines for too many years. Perry deserves to be happy, and he deserves better than this.