I've known him for a while, and I'm a friend, if not a close one. He didn't really talk about it much, so I'm not sure who ditched whom. He routinely did lunch with me during the relationship, so I'm not sure if he even sees me as just a friend. I've only met the ex once, and that was before I even knew they were dating, that's not an issue. It's just that, honestly, I've never made the first move before, and I have no desire to be the person who puts themself out there and gets embarrassed/hurt. I've done it to other people, and it's not fun for either party involved.
Meh, I think I'll wait a bit and then see if I can make myself ask him. And Vic, I can exercise restraint when I want to
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